I don't understand... I'm 21yrs now.. and I had several sexual partners in the past 6 yrs, and I still don't feel a thing. When I was about 15 years old I lost my virginity to my then boyfriend, for 2yrs. I remember the pain from me losing my virginity and then after a while faking everything for 2years because I was scared to tell anyone, and I still kind of am. After we broken up I dated other guys and it's the same thing I don't feel anything no pleasure at all, the only time I get pleasure is when I have oral sex, of course. I'm to embarrassed to go to my Gyn and I know I shouldn't be. I was reading articles from this site that there are other girls like me, and I'm relieved to know I'm not the only one who doesn't enjoy sex, because we don't feel anything. All I feel is something going in and out of me... no pleasure. I'm scared I'm never going to know what it feels like to actually have sex and enjoy it, because I don't get anything off it. And I know it's not the men I was with. I think.. well know there's something wrong with my body... I just need some feedback.. please!

I know how you feel I was molested 3 times as a child, I don't feel any pleasure during sex. There nothing wrong with your body you just went through a tramatic event. I still have flash back but recently with the guy I have been with like a year, he has found my turn ons and when we do foreplay I actually feel something during sex. I suggest you try it.

My first sexual experience was really painful (and I don't mean emotionally painful, just physically painful) and for probably about 5 years after that I really had no interest in sex. I had it regularly because I was in a long-term relationship but it really served me no pleasure whatsoever and even hurt sometimes. I don't know why or what happened but at around 24/25 suddenly I began enjoying it. Now at 30, I thoroughly enjoy it. I can't say why this happened, all I can tell you is that I completely understand your situation. But for some reason, for me, it did eventually get better.