There is this girl that I knew like 2 months ago even though we are in the same college together never talked to her but after meeting in a club and hangin out together I started hitting on her with the cocky and funny routine and by the time that we were leaving for the holidays there was definitely some chemistry even though we had only known each other for like 4 weeks.nway the big doodie comes after we came back to college then I found out she had a boyfriend that she never told me about now I'm ignorin her trying to keep her off because I'm not really sure whether she's into this other dude or me.I know that going for a girl without knowing her personal life was kind of stupid but this sounds like an interesting experience.
Questions are what do I do next? Is it the right thing to do? And when I receive missed calls does this mean she misses me and I should stop it?

What are you learning in college? Does she take some of the same courses? Did she contact you after the holiday by calling you? If she did then it's an indication that she is interested in getting to know you better. After all, you are both still young and all options are still open. Just because you meet someone and share a good time, it does not have to mean 'forever'. You need to give her and yourself a chance to get a career started, future pretty well planned out, and then get serious. But during this time you can still test the waters, just make sure that you both do it SAFELY and with respect for each other. Good luck to you both in learning more than just from books, but it's too early to make commitments either way. Your are just starting your life's journey, so take it slow.

Keep your options open. She obviously is not very focused on you or anyone else right now, so don't expect it to evolve into anything serious anytime soon. See each other at your mutual conveinience and have fun with each other. See other people too and have fun with them as well. Just make sure to be the one who stays in control and don't allow her to start manipulating you. Whenever she's not playing the game straight, back away until she regroups and gets her act together, if ever. Do this and you will have a maximal quality of life with minimum frustration. Start falling for headgames, on the other hand, and you will be continually frustrated and never getting what you want out of life. Remember, it's your life and your happiness ; don't let anyone take that from you.

It seems that I've answered to this before, but it got lost, so here I go. You both are still young and your options are open. Even though she has a 'boyfriend' it does not mean he's the one for life. If she approaches you, get to know her. Apparently she's interested also, or she would not have contacted you again. Nothing in life is a 'for sure' thing and you have plenty of time to get to know new people, fall in and out of love, and learn from those experiences. Don't put people off before you even give them a chance or you just might miss out on something and regret it later. Just don't forget what you are both still in school for, to get a good education, career, and achieve your other goals in life too. But otherwise, have fun, respect each other and enjoy life!

Hi,
It makes no difference is she is "going with someone" or not. It's up to her. If she likes you better, then she will let you know.
If your relationship is one that you don't know where it's going, then get out of it. Meet new people, make some new friends.
Find someone who is honest and up front with you; they are out there, you just have to find them.
Forget about her; don't call her.
You had a short relationship, that's all.
Best of luck,
fredg