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trying4babykirk
Sep 23, 2007, 01:17 PM
Does anyone have any suggestions!? My husband and I are Trying to conceive and I would like to have sex every night if we could for two reason, to be intimate with him, and to Trying to conceive. Sometimes I can be extremely suductive and he doesn't want to have sex. He works late, so I try to get him in the mood during the day and he just says I would rather have sex at night! Can anyone suggest anything?:confused:

smoothy
Sep 24, 2007, 09:36 AM
I may be a little slow here, but what does Trying to conceive mean?

Synnen
Sep 24, 2007, 10:22 AM
Trying to conceive =- Trying To Conceive

Tuscany
Sep 24, 2007, 10:33 AM
Is he apprehensive about your decision to try and have a baby?

cpalmist
Sep 24, 2007, 08:07 PM
I checked your profile and it seems and I could be wrong that you really looking to have a kid to cement this marriage deal and quick.
Brother and his wife did the same thing - he told me that Trying to conceive sex took a lot of the fun out of it and made it a chore rather than a loving experience...
You just maybe more excited about having a kid now than he is so you might want to do some reality checks to make sure y'all are still on the same frequency on this really important matter...

Ok, I answered your question so it's your turn to be polite and stuff and Rate This Answer.

smoothy
Sep 25, 2007, 06:28 AM
Like women some guys tend to be morning or evening people. He seem to like evenings as I do. However he may be feeling the pressure from the Trying to conceive issue and that's spoiling the mood for him. I'll guess its really nothing about what you are doing or trying but stress of any sort can have that effect on a guy. Not to mention if you are doing the temperature method of pinning down what time of the day. To a guy that's like making him perform like a circus animal and might evoke those sorts of reactions, subconsciously or not.

princessrose949
Sep 25, 2007, 03:03 PM
Buy a sexy costume to dress up in and role play, or buy sexy toys, try and find each others turn on spots