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idahogirl
Sep 22, 2007, 10:34 AM
:confused:ok I'm 17 and going to have a kid I want to live with the dad but he is really into drugs and I don't want my kid to be raised around that kind of stuff should I move in with him or stayy with my parents but he did say he would quit every thing for me and the baby though
JoeCanada76
Sep 22, 2007, 10:37 AM
Well the choice is so obvious. If your series about not wanting to be around drugs, hopefully you do not want to be around that for any reason and it would be the parent, you protecting the child from a drug addicted parent which is so unpredictable.
The only answer is to stay with your parents and do not even go near the baby's dad.
J_9
Sep 22, 2007, 10:38 AM
Is this a real question? If it is, I think you already know the answer to this. Why in the world would you want to be involved and/or living with a drug addict? Why would you want to introduce your tiny infant to the world of addiction?
Stay with your parents.
automansgirl
Sep 22, 2007, 10:39 AM
Stay with your parents! Why would you want to live with him if he's really in to drugs? Not only would this be extremely bad for your child, but also for you. He's not worth it! Stay with your parents, stay clean, and think about what is best for your baby.
J_9
Sep 22, 2007, 10:43 AM
Let me mention too that in some states if the nurses or doctors at the hospital know that you may be taking your child somewhere to live that will put baby in harms way, they are required to notify the proper authorities and you will risk having your child taken away.
Are you sure you are ready for the responsibilities of parenthood? By the looks of this question it seems you are not in the frame of mind to make responsible decisions regarding the health and welfare of an innocent infant.
lou1e
Sep 23, 2007, 12:28 AM
:confused:ok im 17 and going to have a kid i want to live with the dad but he is really into drugs and i dont want my kid to b raised around that kind of stuff should i move in with him or stayy with my parents but he did say he would quit every thing for me and the baby tho
If he really means it he would stop before you move in to prove to you that he does love you and is ready to be a daddy , good luck