I have posted things about my boyfriend before, and we were good for a while. He is sure now that he loves me, except he still doesn't show it. People at school are asking me if we're still together, because he hasn't been showing any affection for me. When we first got together, he would do anything just to see me. He would even kiss me when he first saw me. But now, he's changed. He doesn't seem to want to be with me at all. But now, like yesterday, I had to get bloodwork done, and go to the hospital to get an ultrasound donebecause my dad, who is a doctor, thought that I had appendicitis. So I spent the whole day at the hospital, and I come home, and phone him, and the first thing he said was "you went to the hospital for a tummy ache?" and I keep telling him it isn't a tummy ache... I might have to get my appendix taken out. But today on the phone, he said that going to the hospital because of a tummy ache was pointless, and over-reacting. How do I tell him that it could have been serious without him laughing at me?:(

RUN!!
This jerk will not change. Go find a man that will treat you like a queen not like a door mat.

Sorry that should have been agree!

i have posted things about my boyfriend before, and we were good for a while. he is sure now that he loves me, except he still doesn't show it. people at school are asking me if we're still together, because he hasn't been showing any affection for me. when we first got together, he would do anything just to see me. he would even kiss me when he first saw me. but now, he's changed. he doesn't seem to want to be with me at all. but now, like yesterday, i had to get bloodwork done, and go to the hospital to get an ultrasound donebecause my dad, who is a doctor, thought that i had appendicitis. so i spent the whole day at the hospital, and i come home, and phone him, and the first thing he said was "you went to the hospital for a tummy ache?" and i keep telling him it isn't a tummy ache...i might have to get my appendix taken out. but today on the phone, he said that going to the hospital because of a tummy ache was pointless, and over-reacting. how do i tell him that it could have been serious without him laughing at me?:(

Your father taking you for an ultrasound means he loves you and cares about you-that's the type of boy/man you want as a boyfriend! Your father is a good example of a caring person-search for a boyfriend who treats you with love and respect-not putdowns and laughter at your expense. Lose him and find a nice boy-you deserve better than that-and tell him so when you drop him!! :)