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vanessa11
Sep 20, 2007, 01:33 PM
My ex boyfriend likes another girl && when I came in the door. I found them together && I started crying when I left to my locker without him noticing. I really love my ex boyfriend really much & I can't live without him. I got really upset when his friends told me that he likes another girl. I want to talk to him a lot but I'm not shuure if thatz actually the girl that's wit him. I really want to have a chance with my ex boyfriend but I just don't know what to say to him. I'm really sad & needing help. So I just need a lot of advice so I can talk to him priviately.

nikki_22
Sep 20, 2007, 03:23 PM
I'm sorry to say it but it sounds like your ex may have moved on. Don't cry to him about how you want him back it will just make you sound clingy. Act confident and happy around him even if its hard. Maybe he will wonder why u ever broke up! You should talk to someone about it if you feel really sad. If you don't want to talk to your folks, ask a favorite teacher, school counselor, religious leader, or trusted adult about this. Remember, you have your whole life ahead of you- if it wasn't meant to be then it wans't meant to be. Please talk to someone about this- it will really help. Hope you feel better soon!

rawtyra
Sep 20, 2007, 04:07 PM
Hi I feel for you and I know what it is like to lose someone that you love and you feel safe with if I was you I would sit down and talk to him see how he feels about it if he is happy with this other person and that is what he wants well I'm sorry but maybe its time to move on and let let him be happy I'm sure you would find someone else that can make you feel like the way your ex mad you if not better I hope this helps all the best x

Fr_Chuck
Sep 20, 2007, 06:42 PM
It sounds like high school or maybe younger, at these ages, relationships come and go often. This is just normal for the age and learning to deal with relationships

eb0515
Sep 20, 2007, 07:07 PM
Everyone goes through this. At least I did and most of my friends... you fall in love for the first time and then you break up and think you just can't go on without them. Trust me, you can! It will get better it just takes time. Why would you want to be with someone who obviously doesn't have the same feelings for you anyway? Go out, have fun, and find a new guy!

statictable
Sep 20, 2007, 08:38 PM
Growth can be painful and you have reminded so many of us of that fact. You know you'll make it through this and if you work with the great advise others are giving you, you'll do well and maybe more. Best wishes 2 you.