FasterAndLouder
Sep 19, 2007, 04:18 AM
I have found myself in a long distance relationship,I met this girl while she was visiting my country,we fell in love,then her Visa expired.
Anyway... I've recently caught her telling a bunch of lies,like... She isn't divorced as she said,appearantly her ex won't sign the divorce papers.
She lied to me about her mother dying (!).
I decided to give her another chance,on the provision that she has to be 100% honest with me 100% of the time.
But,I think I've caught her out,again.
I found out that there are two children,who she claims aren't biologically hers & live with her ex.
They would have been married for two & four years,respectively at the time of birth & she says that he cheated on her,got another woman,or women pregnant & has custody of them.
I can't think of any real way of checking this out,I've called her on it three times & she is still telling me they aren't biologically hers.
I really love this girl... I feel like I'm being played.
I don't have another broken heart in me,another one would have dire mental,emotional & physical consequenses.
Any advice would be much appreciated.
Anyway... I've recently caught her telling a bunch of lies,like... She isn't divorced as she said,appearantly her ex won't sign the divorce papers.
She lied to me about her mother dying (!).
I decided to give her another chance,on the provision that she has to be 100% honest with me 100% of the time.
But,I think I've caught her out,again.
I found out that there are two children,who she claims aren't biologically hers & live with her ex.
They would have been married for two & four years,respectively at the time of birth & she says that he cheated on her,got another woman,or women pregnant & has custody of them.
I can't think of any real way of checking this out,I've called her on it three times & she is still telling me they aren't biologically hers.
I really love this girl... I feel like I'm being played.
I don't have another broken heart in me,another one would have dire mental,emotional & physical consequenses.
Any advice would be much appreciated.