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hehehman
Sep 14, 2007, 11:23 AM
:confused:

Alrite here it is, a friend of mine was really into thi9s girl and I didn't know exactly what he saw in her an said so. However about a month or so after that I met her at a party an ended up going back to hers an being with her. Next week or so we decided to laeve it cause of the friend.
Now roll on 4 months an were back at the same juncture. Never slept with her so it isn't sexual,although it would be good. The friend also says that they were getting closer though she says all he ever will be is friends. The two of us ave a lot in common an its easy with her. Though she isn't what I would be usually with I get the feeling that it feels all so rite.
Oh yeah an I told the friend that I was with her out of respect for him he appreciates that but isn't talking to me an is pissed. Should I be with her an then end up not speaking with the friend for a long time and have a whole lota awkward times when we all meet also my ex is kina involved wit it all aaagh

GlindaofOz
Sep 14, 2007, 11:40 AM
Do you think a girl who it might be good with is worth losing a friend over? My guess is no. You should leave this girl alone and find someone who will not cause so much drama in your life over their affiliations with other people in your life.

talaniman
Sep 16, 2007, 06:22 AM
Just because she is making it easy for you doesn't mean you have to take it. You and your friend are probably not the only ones she acts this way around.

Bros before Ho's

s_cianci
Sep 16, 2007, 07:44 AM
I agree with the others. Sacrificing a friendship for a fling with what sounds like a flimsy woman really isn't worth it, in my opinion.