TiffanysWorld
Sep 13, 2007, 10:47 PM
My sister recently lost custody of her grand daughter to the child's biological father by unlawful means. She took immediate custody of the child more than 5 years ago after the untimely death of her 21 year old daughter (my neice), who left behind 2 small children. One the granddaugther and the other child a grandson who was only a few days old.
Both children have different fathers, however at the time my niece passed, both fathers declined taking full custody of the children, therefore my sister took on the role of caregiver, but nothing was setup legally, which was a big mistake.
Several years later, the father of her grand daughter decides that he wants to raise her and practically kidnapped the child from my sister a few weeks ago and has not given her back. My sister and some of her older children (siblings of the deceased), decided to try and take matters into their own hands and tried to take the child back.
It became such a terrible ordeal and police were called out and arrested my sister and her children, all of which are of adult age between 18 & 22 years old. When they told the police what the problem was, the police sided with the child's father and said that it would be up to a judge to decide who the child should truly remain with, which left my sister devastated as well as my little niece, who is now separated from her little brother and the only family that she has known since her mother passed away.
My sister is beside herself with grief and not quite sure what to do as she doesn't have the means of actually hiring an attorney, yet she can not show any form of proof that she has had custody of the child for at least the past 5 years. To make matters worse, the father of the child didn't even claim her as his own for at least the first couple years of her life. He just not too long became involved right after the death of the child's mother.
What advice could I give my sister in order to help her get the child back legally? She is still receiving social security payments for the child, which was left from the social security record of the deceased. The police seem to feel that she has no rights and has even authorized an order of restraint against her so that she cannot come near the child. The father has also accused my sister as being unfit to raise his daughter, yet he doesn't even have a job and is living in his mother's government assisted home. It's a total mess!
Can anyone help her? Any advice would be enormously appreciated and thank you so much in advance.:)
Both children have different fathers, however at the time my niece passed, both fathers declined taking full custody of the children, therefore my sister took on the role of caregiver, but nothing was setup legally, which was a big mistake.
Several years later, the father of her grand daughter decides that he wants to raise her and practically kidnapped the child from my sister a few weeks ago and has not given her back. My sister and some of her older children (siblings of the deceased), decided to try and take matters into their own hands and tried to take the child back.
It became such a terrible ordeal and police were called out and arrested my sister and her children, all of which are of adult age between 18 & 22 years old. When they told the police what the problem was, the police sided with the child's father and said that it would be up to a judge to decide who the child should truly remain with, which left my sister devastated as well as my little niece, who is now separated from her little brother and the only family that she has known since her mother passed away.
My sister is beside herself with grief and not quite sure what to do as she doesn't have the means of actually hiring an attorney, yet she can not show any form of proof that she has had custody of the child for at least the past 5 years. To make matters worse, the father of the child didn't even claim her as his own for at least the first couple years of her life. He just not too long became involved right after the death of the child's mother.
What advice could I give my sister in order to help her get the child back legally? She is still receiving social security payments for the child, which was left from the social security record of the deceased. The police seem to feel that she has no rights and has even authorized an order of restraint against her so that she cannot come near the child. The father has also accused my sister as being unfit to raise his daughter, yet he doesn't even have a job and is living in his mother's government assisted home. It's a total mess!
Can anyone help her? Any advice would be enormously appreciated and thank you so much in advance.:)