Twenty years ago my H started having ED problems - gradually the sex dropped off completely. We're now in our fifties and have not had any intimacy for 20 years. My H will not address the problem and I feel I don't want to live this way any longer.

I'm considering divorce.

Any opinions? He has refused marriage counselling many times.

So is it the ED problem or OTHER issues you want the counselling for??

Have you thought about YOUR needs-taken things into YOUR own hands for yourself?

K well he doesn't wαnt α dr. eh.. then plαy doctor-- yes sounds young αnd frisky but hey remember in your teens when you were horny little teenαger.. so αct like one.. he's still α mαn αfter αll.. he'll get αroused.. his wαnt for you would def. mαke him fαce his ED problem αnd seeing how he cαn't well pleαsure himself αnd how he's missing out on well being with his bαbe...

Dress kinky. mαke him wαnt you.. dαmn husbαnd will finαlly know whαt he's been missing out on!