I met my first proper girlfreind at 16 and she was 16.we were perfect together.we shared everything.we made each other so happy and we both wanted to spend the rest of our lifes together and have a family but then after a year and a half I felt I needid a change but after about 8months realised how much I loved her and luckily she took me back and I was over the moon.I was so devoted to her its was unreal.but she then decided that she wanted a change and I was gutted but I tried in vain to get her back and eventually she came back and I though that was us forever but then again she broke up with me and I am a total wreck.I cnt sleep or eat and I cnt get her out my head.im obsessed.
Do I try and win her back again or try and get over her?

The best way to get over a first love is to find a second love

Is it easy to do that?and how quickly should I look for a new one?