I am no longer "in love" with my husband. I had a certain respect for him as he is a good man and an okay father, but am just not in love with him. We have been married for about 2 1/2 years and I guess from about 6-8 months into our marriage I knew he wasn't for me. The first time I tried to leave I found out I was pregnant. I took it as a sign and stayed. But now I am still very unhappy, but now I have a baby and I have been a homemaker for the past two years. I don't even know if I can support myself... and when I tried to leave him most recently he says he is going to take my daughter away from me if I try to leave. WHAT DO I DO??

Before you leave you must have somewhere safe and secure to go, maybe back home to your folks, and from there you can do what is necessary to get your life in order.