Im 18 years old, and I have been having sex since I was 14. Up until about 2 months ago I loved to have sex, but now its more painful then pleasurable. It will feel good after a few minutes of the initial sticking it in, but those first few minutes almost make me never want to have sex again.

When I first started bleeding afterwards, lightly I just figured that he torn part of my skin open, and it caused some light bleeding, and then since I am not allowing time for the torn open skin to heal that it was the cause of the painful sex.

But now I can feel exactly where it hurts, inside my vagina. I don't know what to do.

Today, the outside of my vagina was very itchy, like I got rub burn. I am not sure if rub burn is a logical answer or if it has anything to do with why ii have pain when I have sex.

Please give me some advice. I don't have health insurance, so this is the best I can do unless it is an emergency.

Thanks so much!

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Borrow some money and go have it checked by a gynecologist for god's sake. You shouldn't toy with health issues.

It is possible that you're being too "rough" and not giving yourself time to heal. It could also be possible that you have something like Endometriosis (http://www.medicinenet.com/endometriosis/page2.htm) or even an STD or ovarian/uterine cysts.

I'm not trying to scare you, but rather point out that this could be a serious problem. I highly recommend not having sex until you can find a way to get an exam from a GYN. Have you ever been to a GYN before? Don't let the process or lack of funds scare you, its best for your health if you go. Believe me, I know.