inexperienced80
Sep 9, 2007, 04:06 PM
I am 19 I have met a lad at work 3 years older than me and I really like him, as he does me. We have been texting for a while and he made me feel so special telling me all the time how beautiful I am and stunning etc.
We met up outside work to try and get to know each other a little better. He is a very good looking guy, so it worries me he might be a player but I'm usually the first to catch one and he just seems so genuinely lovely. When we met though he said he likes to always been in a relationship which made me feel a little as if perhaps he's not bothered who? But from the way he speaks about me 99% of the time it sounds as if he does really like me.
He asked me if I was a virgin, which I am. I'm totally unexperienced as in never been kissed! And he replied saying he thinks its great I respect my body, but he has a high sex drive. Does he sound like he is being too forward? I told him I felt embarrassed and too inexperiencd for him but he said I was perfect girlfriend material!
My problem is I am so unexperienced, so I can't work out if he is after sex or not. He said we had to take it slowly, go on a few dates, see what happens and no rush into anything which suggests he isn't. I usually run a mile from any lad as I have no self confidence and could never see myself in a relationship, but since I ave met this guy I sort of feel different but at the same time I'm anxious in case I'm not good enough or can't give him what he wants.
Please help with your opinions!
We met up outside work to try and get to know each other a little better. He is a very good looking guy, so it worries me he might be a player but I'm usually the first to catch one and he just seems so genuinely lovely. When we met though he said he likes to always been in a relationship which made me feel a little as if perhaps he's not bothered who? But from the way he speaks about me 99% of the time it sounds as if he does really like me.
He asked me if I was a virgin, which I am. I'm totally unexperienced as in never been kissed! And he replied saying he thinks its great I respect my body, but he has a high sex drive. Does he sound like he is being too forward? I told him I felt embarrassed and too inexperiencd for him but he said I was perfect girlfriend material!
My problem is I am so unexperienced, so I can't work out if he is after sex or not. He said we had to take it slowly, go on a few dates, see what happens and no rush into anything which suggests he isn't. I usually run a mile from any lad as I have no self confidence and could never see myself in a relationship, but since I ave met this guy I sort of feel different but at the same time I'm anxious in case I'm not good enough or can't give him what he wants.
Please help with your opinions!