My boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago right before our 9 months. We broke up because he believed he didn't want a serious relationship before he enters college, where is is now. For about half of that month before he finally left, everything was still the same. We still hung out all the time, called each other, involved each other in sexual things, and still acted as boyfriend and girlfriend. During his first week of college, I was a little denied but when he got home for the labor day weekend, we hung out the entire time, and eveything I was still normal, but whenever I acted too serious, he reminded me that we were not boyfriend and girlfriend. He told me that he wanted to date other people, so he could meet other out there, but still liked me a lot and wanted to take me on dates. So this second week, he got drunk and slept in a bed with another girl and kissed her. I am so heartbroken. I flipped out, and he still continued to tell me, "we are not official".

-Was this OK of him to do under our circumstances, and should I just give up on our relationship? Im so emotionally upset, but I still love him and want to at least try to work things out. How much longer will I feel this way?

He told you what he wanted at the beginning and you refused to listen. He does not want a relationship. He wants to date other people. Stop having sex with him, you're no longer a couple. Don't get mad cause he slept with someone else, this should be your clue. It's over. Move on.

It was wrong to break up and keep having sex with you but you were wrong also. He broke up and told you you were no longer his g/f. You should have stopped havung sex with him then. Let him go and move on.

How come in your other posts you have a GIRL friend of 7 mnths and now you have a BOYfriend of 9 months??
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I'm confused.