So I really like this girl I just met her and I have this feeling like I have never had before it is pertty much amazing... like I have been talking to her so much and every time I do everything around me seems so awesome... the thing is I don't know if she feels the same way I know she likes talking to me and she enjoys being around me but I am scared to ask how she feels I am terribly scared of rejection I have posted a couple of questions before saying I want a girlfriend and everything and now it seems like I found potenial and its amazing I feel so good but how should I go about asking her how she feels I don't want to mess things up

Well I think your in love boy and good for you and you will never know if you don't ask so ask her cause if you don't den you will have that question in your heart all your life;)

And whatever you do. Don't have a friend ask her. Do it yourself. That way she won't think your afraid or anything. Be brave. You can do it. Ask her. Nothing too bad can happen. You may be afraid that she will say no but even if she does its not the end of the world and she may say yes..

Good. You should give it a chance. And once you do, you probably won't feel so bad. Let us know how it goes.

Well I just asked her and she said she likes me and we are going on a date this weekend wow its feeeeelsss so good hahah I thank you guys so much

No problem. I hope every thing goes well with the 2 of you. Good luck.

Thank you and I hope so too I hope I don't mess things up

Well, is there anything you want to know so that you don't? Any certain questions, to help you out? Like things to say? Or anything?

Like I asked her if she even likes me and she was like obviously otherwise I wouldn't be talking to you and I was like so you want to do something Saturday and she was like yes id love to and like should I just take it easy and not do anything the first time and how should I talk to her wow I am such a nerd haha

Well me being a girl I can tell you, definitely don't talk about any other girls. You don't want to make her jellous. Let her know that you do care about her. But try not to get her to do too much with you at first. It may be best to leave that stuff up to her. Try to talk about things that you and her are both interested in. You don't want to say things like "i love you" too much. But you should let her know once in a while.( not like every 5 seconds. It can get annoying and pethetic). Because you are just starting to go out, try to take things slower. But not too slow. I would say for now Just hold hands and things like that. I wouldn't go too far with her yet.

Well yea I kind of figured not to talk about other girls around her and knowing me ill be like way shy again around her ughhh its going to suck but yea I take things pretty slow anyhow so thanks and like should I put my arm around her in the movies or is that like to childish

I like when my boyfriend does that but he doesn't seem to want to. It depends on how you feel about it. If your kind of scared to then don't. But she would probably like it if you did. Me and my boyfriend went out for 2 months before we even held hands. Because we were both too shy. But try not to go that slow.

Oh OK well thanks ill let you know how things went and how they are going

OK. And also, don't call her too much. Try to have it all equaled out to where you go to her just as much as she goes to you. You don't want to always be calling her and she never calls you or her always call you and you never call her and things like that

Well so I left for the weekend to go to vegas and I was talking to her and the Monday I came back she told me she was dating this other guy or better she started dating him while I was gone so yea its over perttty much what happened but maybe it's a good thing and it happened for a good reason

O. I'm so sorry to hear that. Well, you don't want to be with a person like that anyway. She'll probably cheat on that guy or anyone she's with. I'm so sad that happened. I'm sure you will find someone a lot better than her one day though. Someone who doesn't want anything to do with other guys. I wish you the best of luck!

Yea it sucks but whatever well I guess its just like that and everything happens for a good reason and maybe this special someone was just waiting for me haha wow how cheeeeesy

Well, would you rather have stayed with her and get cheated on or wait for someone who will only love you? I bet the second one sounds a lot better. And it may not be her but I'm sure you'll fall in love with some one else. Do you like any of her friends? Or anyone else other than her? I bet she really wouldn't like it if you asked out one of her best friends. Lol. But don't do that for revenge or anything.

Yea true true haha
Well I kind of like this other girl but at the same time I kind of don't feel like liking anyone right now so yeaaaa but I seriously just want a girlfriend

Well, I hope you find someone good soon. Are you sad from it or do you kind of not care?

Ehhhh I don't really care that much like it sucks but on the other hand I am trying to see the positive side and I try to just let it go and just live my life for now

Yeah. Don't worry about her. When you find someone who your really serious with and together a while... then it's okay to worry. Iv'e been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. He's tryes breaking up with me before but I wouldn't let it happen. Just out of curiosity, do guys really like holding hands and stuff? Because he doesn't and I think my brothers the same way with his girlfriend. I mean, do a lot of them just do it even though they don't want to?
Anyway, here's what I think you should do. Who ever it is that you like the most, if they aren't with someone try talking to them as a friend and try to see what kind of person they are and get to know them. Then ask them out. I just hope that doesn't happen to you again. I can understand what it's like being that iv'e kind of been their but I found someone I really care for and they care for me.

Yea I just hope it happens sometime soon but oh well whatever happens happens... and the hand holding thing yea I don't know I don't really like it that much but it doesn't bother me so I don't know I could live without out even though sometimes its nice just holding hands I guess it depends well ill try and just be more opne to the world haha

Well... I just seen my boyfriend talking to another girl. She talks to every guy though. I always had a fear of him likeing her and I never knew why. I don't know what was said or anything. They just looked so happy talking to each other. So I might break up with him. I never thought I would but I'm tired of it. I don't know what to do... I'm confused. I wouldn't be surprised if he told her we were just friends so that's why he doesn't want to hold hands.

You should just confront him and ask him about her... if you have doubts about your relationship make sure you talk its not worth spending all your time with him fi he has no feelings for you and I also think if he truly loves you he would hold your hand at anytime and even if he doesn't like it he would still do it so talk to him

I tried talking to him but he just gets mad and thinks that I'm accusing him of stuff that he's not doing. This is how all of our fights always start and it hasn't happened sense may. But he says he doesn't want to hold hands because it doesn't mean anything to him. And I couldn't really picture him holding hands with anyone.
Have you tried talking to anyone else that you may want to be with?

Ehhh I know one of my friends was saying that he was talking to this girl and my name came up in the conversation and she was like yea I love him he is such a sweetheart haha so I don't know she is cute and everything but I don't want to like talk to girls cause I get to attched to easily haha... and well about your boyfriend I don't know I guess you can tell better if he just does not do it with anyone or if he just doesn't want to do it with you well I know if I love a girl id do anyhting for rher

ehhh i know one of my friends was saying that he was talking to this girl and my name came up in the conversation and she was like yea i love him he is such a sweetheart haha so i dont know she is cute and everything but i dont wanna like talk to girls cause i get to attched to easily haha....and well about your bf i dont know i guess you can tell better if he just does not do it with anyone or if he just doesnt want to do it with you well i know if i love a girl id do anyhting fo rher

You might want to look up the 'Double Your Dating' site/book and study up on it so you don't have to go through this high and low again. I suspect you may be coming across as too needy or too nice - both are death in the eyes of most wimmen - there is 1 wimmen that refutes it but she is 113, blind and deaf and is the last of her tribe so there may have been a problem in translation...

Sorry if this sounds harsh. It will save you a lot of time and grief though.

Haha yea I have deff always been the nice guy you know and its not that big of a deal to find girls that think I am cute its just I don't know how to go about it haha so yea I don't know right now I am just like whatever happens happens so I really don't know

Well, just don't be sad over anyone. I'm sure you'll have a few more girlfriends in your future.