Hi I have been in a relationship for a year and half an the last 4 months she moved in with me. Unfortunately due to her collapsing and being sent to hospital 2 months ago she has decided to get herself sorted as she was doing nothing with her life and had problems such as bulimia and dinking a lot because of this decision by her my girlfriend has been very hard to get in contact with and I have not at all spent time with her, prior to the 2 month break from her we were living together, got along, things were'nt great but we were happy together. I am in total support of what she wishes to achieve for herself but I find it so frustrating that our relationship was a loving relationship and is now barely even a friendship since I hear and see so little of her. My question is, is this temporary or this only going to get worse, and should I wait and see and if so for how long, because I get no clear cut answer from her as to where she is at, and I don't want to rush in be impatient and say something I will regret please help.

She is way to busy fighting her demons, to know what she is going to do about anything. Give her space, to meet these issues, without pressure from you at all, so move on with your life, and pray she handles her business.