View Full Version : Girls are confusing
lifeisarock
Sep 3, 2007, 08:13 PM
So I have been with my girlfriend and we hung out all last night till 5 in the morning with 10 other friends and we were having so much fun. But last night she started getting mad because I kissed her in front of her ex. I asked her before I kissed her if it was all right to kiss in front of her ex. So now she is pissed and doesn't want to talk to me or kiss me or anything what the heck should I do?
cpalmist
Sep 3, 2007, 09:19 PM
Was this a double-lip-lock with full frontal engagement and dolby sound track to entertain/show off for friends and send a message to her -ex to bugger off?
Elsewise it would suggest mebbe her -ex- isn't so ex- as advertised.
lifeisarock
Sep 3, 2007, 09:20 PM
No it was just a little bit of lip lock no frnech and I know she is not cheating on me because he is my best friend and I would know because I hang around him all the time. There is no time he could possibly be cheating on me.
nauticalstar420
Sep 3, 2007, 09:21 PM
no it was just a little bit of lip lock no frnech and i know she is not cheating on me cauz he is my best friend and i would know because i hang around him all the time. there is no time he could possibly be cheating on me.
Hunny, married couples cheat on each other when they think there isn't any possible time. Even if you do not think it is true, don't rule it out.
lifeisarock
Sep 3, 2007, 09:23 PM
True but hmm I got to really check that because I mean really it could be true and if it is I will kill my beset friend. He knows better.
nauticalstar420
Sep 3, 2007, 09:24 PM
I think you should just take yourself out of this situation.
lifeisarock
Sep 3, 2007, 09:25 PM
I know I should but I just love her 2 much. I hate love you can't fight it
nauticalstar420
Sep 3, 2007, 09:26 PM
I know, but it is not worth losing a lifelong friend.
lifeisarock
Sep 3, 2007, 09:27 PM
Yea but I have actually been friends with her since I was 7 and friends with him since 7 2. I am great friends with the both of them
nauticalstar420
Sep 3, 2007, 09:31 PM
Then it should be easier for you all to talk about this. Maybe all three of you are better off as just friends.
lifeisarock
Sep 3, 2007, 09:34 PM
Yea but I just really like her and I just can't get her out of my head. I read an email she sent to my friend like 10 minutes ago and she is like I love him so much and stuff and I no it was real. So I just don't think that is going to happen at least for now though
nauticalstar420
Sep 3, 2007, 09:36 PM
If she loves you then she needs to get herself together so she does not hurt you. I'm not saying break up, but just give her space so she can think about things. The fact that she won't kiss you in front of him sounds like she still has feelings for him.
lifeisarock
Sep 3, 2007, 09:40 PM
Yea I just don't think that cause my friend can be really mean and she really got mad at him and slapped him when they broke up and he said that if you ever kiss in front of me I will hurt u. and I'm not kidding that is what he said. So that sort of is why but I don't think she is afraid cause she knows I can easily beat him up
cpalmist
Sep 3, 2007, 09:46 PM
So are you even in high school?
lifeisarock
Sep 3, 2007, 09:47 PM
No I am in my first year of college
cal823
Sep 3, 2007, 10:21 PM
Hey, chicks can swing a little, you understand?
No offense intended ladies!
My best friends in the whole world are this couple I know, and they are so cool lolz
The other day, the guy got grounded for three weeks, so he can't see her
Who does she get angry at? Who does she say she hates? Him of course, she hates him (well she doesn't really, but she says she does because she's upset) because she can't see him and will miss him! So, chicks emotion can run high, they can even change their mind after things happen
Just stick with her mate, she's obviously worth it, and don't let anyone else but you and your girlfriend decide what you can and cannot do and in front of who
Anyone who threatens someone or tries to control what someone can and cannot do with their girlfriend, should be told to go away and mind their own business, because its up to the couple what they do, not others.
Maybe she got angry because she realised that the kiss would cause a lot of problems and she may be angry at herself as well for letting the problems be caused and at you for also not realising how problematic it would be at the time.
bayareaslapzz
Sep 4, 2007, 12:15 PM
You should kiss her again and smile at her ex while doing it... and give the tiger woods fist pump
lifeisarock
Sep 4, 2007, 12:24 PM
Haha
mikehst
Sep 4, 2007, 01:57 PM
I think you should just tell her to f*** herself because it sounds like to me she said you could kiss her and second of all, you shouldn't have to ask whether to kiss your own girlfriend in front of a man she's been with. You just need to be prepared if he wants to start a problem with you and it doesn't sound like he cared anyway. Let her get over it. She's just being a b****
s_cianci
Sep 4, 2007, 04:37 PM
I'm inclined to tell you to react the way mikehst suggests. Maybe not using such harsh language but the basic idea.
talaniman
Sep 4, 2007, 06:11 PM
Dude if you need permission to kiss your G/F, then she ain't your g/f. If her ex controls her action with you, she ain't your g/f. Ain't that much love in the world, to be in that kind of relationship, high school or college.
xCrookedWingsx
Sep 4, 2007, 06:15 PM
Wow immature much! Girls are weird :3 ill give you that
Just explain to her that you asked her if everything was all right and that her being mad at you is idiotic and immature. Also that you can't read her mind so how were you to know!
br_hjs
Sep 4, 2007, 06:18 PM
If she got mad at you for kissing her in front of her ex, then wouldn't that mean that she still likes him?
mckenzie134
Sep 4, 2007, 07:18 PM
This girl is not your girlfriend if she wa you would not need to ask to kiss her! Find out ehat a girlfriend is and then you will know...
nauticalstar420
Sep 4, 2007, 07:19 PM
Dude if you need permission to kiss your G/F, then she ain't your g/f. If her ex controls her action with you, she ain't your g/f. Ain't that much love in the world, to be in that kind of relationship, high school or college.
Tal hit the nail right on the head. I hope the OP listens to him :)
lifeisarock
Sep 5, 2007, 07:33 PM
Well I sort of broke up with her.
nauticalstar420
Sep 5, 2007, 07:42 PM
Are you okay? How did it go? And how did she react? :)
Dennis777
Sep 5, 2007, 08:28 PM
Hello.
It sounds to me like she still has feelings for him and she felt guilty kissing you in front of him. Take the time to talk to her about it. Let her know in a nice way how you feel. If she can't understand or doesn't care then move on and find your Mrs. Right.
Dennis777
mikehst
Sep 7, 2007, 04:46 PM
I normally don't answer like this, view most of my posts. I put a lot of thought into it. But this one is just ridiculous man lol. But you are a college student doing something good with your life and you don't need chicks like that. All that matters is you had the b4llz to do it in front of him lol and accept any manifested behavior on his end. I should watch my f***ing language though lmao. No seriously, if you want her to feel it, tell her that and maybe shell say no I want YOU to then your getting automatic laid status. You can't go wrong either way man. : D