Alright readers, its me again lets get right down to it, in my first question on here i mentioned my "friend" chiara. Now i have liked this boy alex since like last year i discovered him. I had told chiara about him and she reacted like dang hes hot. now this year she is really bothering me in trying to get close to him. She hun out with a friend natalee and he was apparently there and then again in a crowd they hung (4 people). She is rubbing it in my face and it seems like she would stab me in the back if he liked her by small chance. I am very confused how can she do this to me. as gretchin weiners would say "its just against the rules of feminism" . is chiara going to do this to me? how should i react around that subject. and how do you all feel about a friend liking ur crush or possibly ex?

I would not deem a person like that my friend. And I just would not deal with her. Another way to look at it, if the boy likes her, that is not her fault, but if she makes a habit of doing stuff like that, don't continue being friends with her.

Thanks she has this is kind of the second time but this time is actually serious the first she was just really thinking he was hot. And still she is confusing me if she does this to me I will blow.

Come on peeps I need more opinions lol

First of all, IF my friend was stepping up on my crush. I say go for it, good for you. Let her find out what he is about.
But, you should approach him as soon as possible and let him know that you exist. Spark up conversation. Find something in common. Go with the flow. But you can be sure that if she was a true friend of yours, psstt... she wouldn't do that to you. Tell her how you feel, when she throws it in your face. I know its putting all your feelings out there but in the end of it all, wouldn't you wonder if you had did this differently it would have worked out for the best,

Chin up

Thanks mel I didn't get the first sentence but lol it was meaningful