Hi
I am a 52 year old guy who been on my own for 4 years, so lots of handjobs, I meet a lovely lady, and we tried to make love for the first time the other day, I got hard, but could not orgasm, the penis did not have much feeling in it to get that feeling that I wanted to . I can still orgasm when I handjob, Is it that I over done that!

Hi
I am a 52 year old guy who been on my own for 4 years, so lots of handjobs, I meet a lovely lady, and we tried to make love for the first time the other day, I got hard, but could not orgasm, the penis did not have much feeling in it to get that feeling that I wanted to . I can still orgasm when I handjob, Is it that I over done that!


Just be happy you got it up! Yes, probably you enjoyed your handjobs too much lately and that's why your experience with the lady didn't come close to what you wanted. I suggest you lay off the handjobs for a while so you two can get it on properly next time ! Good luck !

Let's start at the beginning... are you on any medications? This can cause this problem sometimes.

Also, you should probably just chalk it up to nerves. Must likely you were experiencing subconscious performance anxiety. Happens a lot. Not to worry.

A PROBLEM it is see I have the same Problem,
I do drink Liqour but I have tried going a week and a half without Sex and not Drinking for a Month but I still have a problem Getting there it stays hard: I have all the sensations of ejaculation the Throb ,the don't with it sensations but no Sperm..
I'm 39 and it started randomly when I was 36 it has caused me to be Accused of outside relations and such but I had not had relations outside of my relationship at that time.. I thought well it's the girl I'm just not excited by her anymore But that's not it..
New Girls and still no sperm.. I can materbate (which takes forever) and finely get there but not through Sex. Why?
let me think maybe its Lower back problems and Pains that's when mine started when I RE-INJURED My Back.. so guys it maybe Pain stopping your Getting there with all the mess.