My girlfriend going on two months now has asked me if she can go to her old ex's house that she dated for two years she claims that he is her "best friend" but his dad is going to be there should I be worried and what should I do about it?

The question is do you trust your girlfriend? If so, then this should not be an issue. Some people do stay friends with their exes and those exes can turn into their closest friends. If his dad is going to be there I can't imagine much is going to happen other then hanging out.

What should you do? Nothing. You can't make someone do something. You can't tell her she can't go or threaten to end your relationship if she does all that will do is make her mad.

Hello.

Don't try to stop her from going. If it bugs you let her know in a very nice way that it does bug you but you trust her and that's what counts.

DO NOT ask her questions about what she did at her ex's house. You can ask her normal questions like did she enjoy her self, But do not take it past that. YOu have to show her that you trust her.

Many times a Girl will use an EX to see if you are going to trust her, if that's the case you win. If she starts seeing him more and more then you can talk to her about how you feel.

Good Luck
Dennis777

Thanks for the help