View Full Version : Why am I this way
jman18
Aug 17, 2007, 09:45 PM
So I am really shy and self conscious even though a lot of people say I shouldn't be I am very self conscious of my appearance but people tell me they don't understand why because a lot of them think I am cute or hondsome but I really have issues with my appearance and it is really starting to bug me why do I have these problems?? Even though I get a lot of compliments about me but I still think I am fat and ugly why?? I also am very shy and get nervous around girls it sucks I really just want a steady relationship and that's all I want
Can someone tell me what they think and what I should do??
Dennis777
Aug 17, 2007, 11:24 PM
Hello.
Many people don't think they look good and because of that they stay in the background and miss out on many fun things. The truth is looks is not as important as you think. A Girl will look at who you are not what you look like. If she is so shallow that looks is how she picks who she likes and dislikes, she isn't worth being with anyway.
The secret to picking up a lady is Loving yourself and who you are. That's doesn't mean be a jerk and think your Gods gift to the Ladies but knowing you're a great guy and that you will treat a Lady like a Lady should be treated is what all Ladies want in a Man.
Dennis777
cal823
Aug 18, 2007, 02:31 AM
Keep your head up. Shoulders straight, not hunched. Keep your back straight. Sit up. You will be noticed. Look people in the eyes.
Be confident. Be yourself. Be happy! And be patient, someone will come one day