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ollieperry
Aug 17, 2007, 05:36 AM
Il start explanin the situation. I've been going out with my girlfriend for a couple of monthes now, were very close, and latly things have been getting abit sexual.. we are in the same year and can talk to each other about almost anything.

Out of the blue she told me she wanted a break for a few weeks to see how it went .

I don't no why because we seemed completely fine , I don't no if this means she wants 2 break up with me or not , and why she wants a break in the first place
, I asked her if she still liked me and she said she thought so ,
Also we are supposed to be going to a prom type thing together and its going to be so aquward cause I won't no how to treat the situation.

If you could reply it would be a great help thanks

SAB123
Aug 17, 2007, 10:38 AM
She may be interested in someone else and keeping you on the back burner in case this new person doesn't work out.

talaniman
Aug 17, 2007, 10:49 AM
Give her what she asked for and move on. Find another date and save yourself the drama and confusion of wondering what's up with her. That's something you may never know ,nor should care about. You like her a lot more than she likes you and when a female wants a break for whatever reason its over. Sorry, but she ain't worth trippin' on. There are some others who would appreciate the attention.

ollieperry
Aug 17, 2007, 03:17 PM
OK I understand what your saying bt I still don't want to give her up that easily , I'm pretty sure she isn't seeing another guy cause we have all the same friends pluse I no she isn't like that,
Also there is something else I frgot to menchion.. we were alone at here house and when we wetn back out her dad saw us holding hands and I think he realised wt we had been up 2.. After I think her parents gave her a "talk" and its after that she said she wanted a break..
I'm pretty sure she still likes me but I don't no wt 2 do.. more advice please...

talaniman
Aug 17, 2007, 03:56 PM
My advice doesn't change, unless she can give you more to go on. She wants a break for whatever reason. Do you attend the same school? Are you a bum or weed head and do you feel her parents have lot to do with this? Why wouldn't she tell you what the real deal is?

ollieperry
Aug 17, 2007, 04:09 PM
Ehh yea in same school and same year.. and no don't smoke or really drink at all.. she has occasional fag, bt apart frm that.. well they migh do . Me and her parents get on fine.. and like me. But I'm don't think they like the fact that I am by myself with her and they don't no what's happening.. . I still lv her and I don't no if she wants a short break or a long term thing..

talaniman
Aug 18, 2007, 07:41 PM
You had fun and enjoyed each other and now you must accept its over for whatever reason and know that when your young these things happen... A lot. Don't dwell on it, or feel bad, there will be others.

Homegirl 50
Aug 18, 2007, 10:55 PM
Maybe this young lady is not ready for a sexual relationship and her parents don't want her in one either and have told her to cool it with you.
If you really like this girl, respect her wishes or move on.

ollieperry
Aug 19, 2007, 11:01 AM
Thanks for all the inputs.. we split up to day.. and I guess I saw it coming
We are still friends and I'm slowly but surly getting over her

Homegirl 50
Aug 20, 2007, 03:21 AM
I wish you the best.

Jiser
Aug 20, 2007, 10:16 AM
Give her space and go NC!