I normally don't get an orgasm when me and my boyfriend are messing around.. maybe I don't know what it feels like and that's why. What happens when a girl has an orgasm? :confused:

How old are you Allie?

Hmmmm... you'll know when it happens

Mmmm... well from what I heard there are certin things you have to do inorder to prepare your body and mind for it.. I suggest you search on the net as I can't be a help in that area... but the thing I can help with is that most guys will have sex as they see it in porn.. going in and out... it might feel good to the male and female but it won't get you to have your big O... (not the case for most women) for you to have that try having him go round in circles and stay in u.. to pull it in and out but not too much... best thing is if he sits on a chair with legs open and you on top... he won't be able to move much but you will.. and this will give you controle enough to to test and expermint till you find that sweet spot... keep hitting it with right speed and motion as you like... and well.. enjoy :) (oh and it feels like a sneeze just much much much better hehe... I would suggest if you never had it with yourself alone before... try that... there is no shame in it and no one sees u... its good so you know how you want it and need it )