All right so here's the deal... my brother has this REALLY CUTE REALLY nice guy friend... hes almost my age I'm 17 and he's almost 17... my parents really think he's a good nice kid and they really like him as a family friend he comes around my house a lot... and he went on a trip with my family... I really like him a lot... I really want to ask him out but I'm scared to partly because this would be my first boyfriend and partly because he's my brothers friend... I have him added on myspace and we talk often I love to play paintball and he comes over often to play it with me and my brother in our woods I have no idea if he likes me because well I'm afraid to ask... im scared that if I ask him out and he says no to me... then I'm stuck because he comes over a lot and that would be really awkward to have the guy who rejected me at my house all the time also on the same trip he came on with my family one of my friends (whos a girl) came to... she started flirting with him... and he gave her all his info(myspace face book aim etc.) she really is tempted to ask him out because she's told me she likes him... what should I do... im afraid of losing my friend by asking him out I'm also afraid of making my brother angry by dating his friend but I REALLY like this guy... HELP!! ::confused: :confused:



What are some good things to do on dates? Keep in mind this will be my first boyfriend so I need a lot of advice. Also I'm 17 I've never had sex I'm keeping my virginity till I'm married so nothing to do with sex... I don't even want to do anything that could potentualy? Lead to sex because I was brought up with the understanding sex before marriage is wrong and I agree with it.

I Would Put Your Interest Out There To Him, Don't Ever Let Missed Chances Take U . Look At It This Way Ul Neve Know Till U Ask U Don't Have Him Know So What Are U Risking Nothing. As A Guys Perspective Ill Tell U Right Now He Knows That U Like Him And He Could Be Afraid Too To Ask Because Of His Closeness With Ur Family.

Hello.

Just be friends until things happen in their own time between you both. You can always give him your special smile to let him know you enjoy having him around.

Dennis777