(when meeting them for the first time) Wat topics do you think you should tlk about, and which ones should be avoided?

Hi,
Talk about mutual friends, nice things only.
Talk about the weather, movies that you have both seen, hobbies you like. Talk about anything you want to.
Most important; be respectful and honest. Don't lie about anything... they do catch up with you, and cause much headache.
Ask her what she likes to do for fun, what foods she likes, talk about her, and she in turn, will help you break the silence.
After the date is over, it is a very, very respectful thing to do to just simply ask, "Can I kiss you goodnight??".
This shows respect, and is really, really appreciated by anyone.
Best of luck,
fredg

I think the first date is the easiest! Cause there is soooo many questions to ask.. what he/she said in the last post. Just be RESPECTFULL! That is the main key.

Hi,
I agree with being RESPECTFUL... that really is the key. Open doors for her, like the car door, or others. Let her walk in first, treat her as she is, a lady.

fredg