View Full Version : People think I'm feisty.what should I do?
amicablemunchkin
Aug 5, 2007, 05:11 PM
Im an outgoing person and when Im out with a group of people.. I talk a lot because I don't like silence. A lot of guys would say I'm feisty, butt I don't think I am. I do speak my mind a lot though... Should I just talk less next time when I'm out?
GlindaofOz
Aug 5, 2007, 05:16 PM
Nothing wrong with being feisty... I happen to pride myself in it. There is nothing wrong with a lady speaking her mind and being lively. However, a lady also knows when she's hogging the conversation and hangs back to allow others to shine.
(BTW I would also take a guy telling me I'm feisty as an incredible compliment)
amicablemunchkin
Aug 5, 2007, 10:47 PM
How would you know if you have spoken too much or hogging the conversation? Is feisty the same as b*tchy?
Skell
Aug 5, 2007, 10:53 PM
Its OK to talk a lot as long as you listen a lot too.
I think you'll find that most people don't mind feisty people. As long as when they are talking they get the respect and consideration they offer you.
Do you think sometimes you are talking when you should be listening? That does get on peoples nerve.
Dreamer10
Aug 5, 2007, 10:55 PM
It all depends on if what you are saying is worth hearing, or if you are funny, or people enjoy listening to you.