I was wondering if anyone in this forum was a "dumper".

If so, what were you guys thinking after you broke up with your partner? I just want an insight into what kind of emotions they would go through and what you expected from your ex after you broke up with him/her.

Thanks.

I think that just about everyone is a "dumper" at one time or another. I can't speak for everyone, but as for myself I actually felt relief and a sense of freedom after ending what I felt was an unhealthy relationship. And I had no problem verbalizing and expressing exactly why I ended the relationship.

Myself I didn't have any emotions unless there was a really serious connection.