I've known my buddy 4 4 months,I know he likes me but I'm falling for him which was nt the initial plan,but al the kissing and cuddling after sex is confusing me,I don't know if I should tell him or enjoy it while it lasts(ignorance is bliss).I want him

Hello.

Im sure if your feeling it so is he and there is no need to say anything. Relax and enjoy it, See where it goes.

Dennis777

Let him know why don't you just start a relationship, a lot of couples start as friends.

My wife and I started as friends; we were friends for 6 months before we started dating. In fact, she was going to set me up with a co-worker of hers initially. Then we fell for each other.

Great things can come out of a friendship, as you can probably tell.

A lot of relationships begin with a friendship. Tell him how you feel, he may feel the same. And see where it leads. :-)

Hate to say this and be the barer of bad news BUT I don't think it is appropriate to sleep with someone you're not with and if he can have sex with you and kiss and cuddle and bla bla bla without having a comitment/relationship why would he want to change? He can have the best of both worlds this way free non-comitted no strings attached sex and lead the single swinger life and not have to be tied down. I think this is a bad situation