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mylove101
Jul 29, 2007, 10:38 PM
Ok, well my neighbor has this really cool friend named Jared. He got my number and texted me and ever since I've loved him! When we are texting, he is totally different than when he is with his friends. He is the nicest to me out of all the other guys. He makes me laugh when I don't even want to smile. My friends tell me that they catch him looking at me when I'm not paying attention and smiles. We don't really talk of the phone ALONE, but we talk in group things. I really like him but he has a girlfriend. But, do you think he likes me? :confused:

rankrank55
Jul 29, 2007, 10:40 PM
Yeah it sounds like he is interested in you hun! Just be confident and give him a call!

mylove101
Jul 29, 2007, 11:29 PM
The suckey thing is that he has a girlfriend, so ill wait. Lol

nicespringgirl
Jul 30, 2007, 08:08 AM
Youth should be light hearted about love.
Yes he likes you.
It's different from loving you.
It takes time for a guy to fall in love, he might be interseted in you.
But don't assume that he already likes you.
That way, you hurt less if you find out the opposite answer.

Haplo
Jul 30, 2007, 09:35 AM
the suckey thing is that he has a gf, so ill wait. lol

Welcome to the first red flag of your budding sort-of relationship. Why is he giving you so much attention when he has a girlfriend? Why isn't he paying attention to her? If he doesn't like her, why doesn't he break up with her?

I hate to be the stick in the mud, but these are important questions :(

rankrank55
Jul 30, 2007, 09:40 AM
Haplo is right! If he is acting this way with his current girlfriend what makes you so sure he wouldn't act this was if you were his girlfriend? Definite red flag; I would not worry about him too much.

mylove101
Jul 30, 2007, 01:03 PM
I don't know, but my neighbor is gone, so I can't c him for 9 days.

nicespringgirl
Jul 30, 2007, 01:07 PM
He is the nicest to me out of all the other guys. He makes me laugh when I don't even want to smile. :

There is not going to be any guy that be extremely mean and pour drinks on you, make you cry to get you! DOn't be fooled by him, he has a girlfriend, who knows if he is doing the same thing to another girl?:eek:

mylove101
Jul 30, 2007, 01:12 PM
OK, so he doesn't?

GlindaofOz
Jul 30, 2007, 01:16 PM
ok, so he doesnt??

No he probably does like you but is looking to cheat on his current girlfriend. So what we are all saying is that you do not want someone who would cheat on a girlfriend because he will do the same thing to you.

Haplo
Jul 30, 2007, 01:18 PM
Yep, you have to think a little bit about what you're doing. He definitely sounds interested in you, but do you want to be with a guy who will cheat on his girlfriend for you? Wouldn't you want honesty and integrity from your guy?