dbltbl03
Jul 24, 2007, 06:24 PM
I am 27 years old, and am currently living with my mother and brother in a mobile home owned by my mother. She refused to sign the lease so I assume she not on a lease for the park.. November 2005 my mom started passing out for no reason so she was sent home a few times from work and sent to the hospital a few times from work. She worked in security so they moved her from one location to another and she passed out at the wheel and totalled there work vehicle and don't remember it, but she didn't have to pass for it and they asked her to reassign which she did and has been out of work since because the doctors says she isn't able to work, so she trying to collect disablility. First time she was denied, and she got a lawyer. Well needless to say she didn't have much money saved so my brother (mainly) and myself paid our own bills plus started paying our own bills to keep a roof over our heads. My brother has taken out several loans to help pay her bills plus his, but now she claims she not paying him nothing back unless he proves what he paid out. She was approved for something so she gets like 150.00 a month plus food stamps. Now her lawyer set a court date for the 7th and claims she going to get approved this time, so she getting happy before being approved.. We haven't found out what is wrong with her but since quitting working she has wrecked her own vehicle and don't remember doing it but my brother took a loan out to pay for the deductable to get it fixed.. We don't know what is wrong with her but she passes out and don't realize it.. She falls asleep with food or cigerates lite and we yell and she says she is awake.. She also has altimers and has a bad memory.. My brother and I have both tried taking her medicines and set them out how she is suppose to take them, and she didn't like it because we weren't giving her enough (more than what she needed) so she tore our room apart trying to find her medicine.. So now she has them and I think she takes more than she should, or mixes them together, or just losses them and blames my brother and I for taking them.. Well my brother took one of her medicines for a headache and she started blaming stuff on him and then because I was taking his side she starts with me.. Now she has told me today that rent is being changed from what I pay to 1/3 lot rent which I would consider if I had my own room and space that was lockable so she wouldn't snoop in my stuff.. 1/3 comcast (cable, internet, and phone) I already pay 1/2 for cable and internet in which I don't get the internet, but I pay for it anyway.. Now she wants me to pay for the phone part of the bill when I don't use the phone and have my own phone in which I use for internet access.. then I have 2 days to cut the grass or get rid of my dog because I refuse to pick up dog and if I don't pick it up my brother won't cut the grass.. My step dad passed away in 2005 and she was given a big jewelry box by him in which she didn't want because it was so big so he gave it to me, and over time she kept putting her jewerly in it saying it was safer in there and she wanted me to have it when she was gone.. So after he passed away I put a certain ring on that was his and now she says if I don't return it she going to slash my tires.. I got to pay extra for storage and her to watch my dog.. I don't take much medicine but I found out she was stealing mine and selling them to others in exchange to other medicines and she goes threw my stuff just because it is on her desk that she allowed me to use.. I feel that I don't have no space, or privacy because she is always snooping in my things without my permission.. She has wrecked half my blankets and other materials that I came here with originally and says she'll pay me back but I have not seen nothing.. I buy her material all the time and she is never satisfied with it.. I go out of my way to help her and do things for her,but since my brother took 1 of her medicines for a headache and I took his side she is starting arguments with me.. Today she give me notice that rent changes as of Aug 1st which I don't think is right because it wasn't in writing nor was it 30 days notice.. I told her by law she can't have me evicted unless she goes threw the eviction process, in which I looked up but she says since I am family she don't have to go threw that process.. So she gives me a written notice to be out in 30 days without a reason and when I told her it had to have a reason she says no, but says your attitude and we can't get along.. Well I only have an attitude because this started between them 2 and I got brought into it because I play the middle field and she says I am taking his side and when he is not around keepings putting new rules on the table or blaming me for this and that when it was in the past.. We don't get along because I don't let her get her way and let her have everything she wants.. I have an opinion and when I feel the need to express it I will, but I don't get violent or physically.. I have helped pay her bills plus my own plus buy stuff for this house and help out when I can.. I work 40 hours or more and haven't lost my job and I try to attend college courses part-time.. Working and going to school is a lot but to come home and have to cook, clean or run around is not something I want to do but I do what I can when I can.. Financial aid pays for my school because my family won't, but yet they always pushed me to do it.. I don't think she should be allowed to evict me like this, and without an income or being approved for disablilty she has nothing and without my brother and I paying the bills she wouldn't have a roof over her head but she thinks she going to get approved this time.. Is she allowed to evict me this way or does she have to go to court to get me evicted? I have no place to go and I stuck around to help her out, but sometimes I wish I didn't because I deal with too much stress living with her and helping her out..