View Full Version : How to pay him back?
luvabubble
Jul 23, 2007, 10:44 PM
My partner lately has been very giving and affectionate, he takes me out to dinner, he drives all the way from 5 suburbs just to drive me home which is a 5 seconds drive, he pays for absolutely everything and he constantly buys me perfume, jewellery.
This is all great except that fact that he works full time and I'm still in school so I can't return the favour.
I need help to figure something out that's so spetactular, romantic and would completely blow his mine away to remind him exactly how much I care for him and that id do anything for him.
He deserves something special
Please help
Cheers xoxox :)
Skell
Jul 23, 2007, 10:48 PM
Maybe he would like some new underwear... on you that is...
nauticalstar420
Jul 23, 2007, 10:48 PM
Cook him a really nice romantic dinner. Flowers, candlelight, maybe even some romantic music... the whole works.
Then after dinner, to get on the more casual side, you two can sit down and watch a movie or two. Just you two together under a blanket watching a nice movie.
You do not need to spend a ton of money to give someone a meaningful gift. They will always appreciate the effort and love you put into it :)
luvabubble
Jul 23, 2007, 10:48 PM
Haha underwear?? Hmm why would I need them lol...
luvabubble
Jul 23, 2007, 10:50 PM
Cook him a really nice romantic dinner. Flowers, candlelight, maybe even some romantic music...the whole works.
Then after dinner, to get on the more casual side, you two can sit down and watch a movie or two. Just you two together under a blanket watching a nice movie.
You do not need to spend a ton of money to give someone a meaningful gift. They will always appreciate the effort and love you put into it :)
I actually thought of that idea myself but due to him and I both still living with our parents it makes it VERY difficult
nauticalstar420
Jul 23, 2007, 10:52 PM
i actually thought of that idea myself but due to him and i both still living with our parents it makes it VERY difficult
Do you get along with eachothers parents? If so, try and work out a day at one of your houses when your parents will allow you to have a date night. You could suggest that they go out and watch a movie together as well :)
luvabubble
Jul 23, 2007, 10:54 PM
Do you get along with eachothers parents? If so, try and work out a day at one of your houses when your parents will allow you to have a date night. You could suggest that they go out and watch a movie together as well :)
I could try... I was kind of hoping that you might have an idea for PLAN B... my parents isn't the type to LEAVE THE HOUSE EVER!! Lol
nauticalstar420
Jul 23, 2007, 10:55 PM
Is there anything to do near you that doesn't cost any money? Parks? Beaches? You could always do the dinner thing, but you could do it in the form of a picnic :)
luvabubble
Jul 23, 2007, 10:57 PM
Is there anything to do near you that doesnt cost any money? Parks? Beaches? You could always do the dinner thing, but you could do it in the form of a picnic :)
Well see that's where he takes me and does for me almost every weekend and I don't haVe my PS as of yet so I can't particularly surprise him or anything and I want this night to be ALL ABOUT HIM so he Don't HAVE TO DRIVE, Don't HAVE TO PAY, AND Don't EVEN HAVE TO MOVE lol
It is also I 6 months in 2 weeks
nauticalstar420
Jul 23, 2007, 11:04 PM
Maybe his parents would be willing to go see a movie for a couple of hours to allow you two to have a date night. Then he really wouldn't have to move since he'll be in his own house.. lol.
You could even picnic in your own backyard at sunset. Sunsets are always romantic and beautiful.
Its kind of hard to think of something if you don't even want him to drive. He could drive somewhere and you can tell him the directions to go, but don't tell him WHERE you're going, and I'm sure he wouldn't mind driving at all. He will be anticipating the surprise and I'm sure he'd love it.
luvabubble
Jul 23, 2007, 11:06 PM
Maybe his parents would be willing to go see a movie for a couple of hours to allow you two to have a date night. Then he really wouldnt have to move since he'll be in his own house..lol.
You could even picnic in your own backyard at sunset. Sunsets are always romantic and beautiful.
Its kind of hard to think of something if you dont even want him to drive. He could drive somewhere and you can tell him the directions to go, but dont tell him WHERE you're going, and i'm sure he wouldnt mind driving at all. He will be anticipating the surprise and i'm sure he'd love it.
Yeah I think I might do that... thanks heaps you're a life saver... hug hug
nauticalstar420
Jul 23, 2007, 11:06 PM
yeah i think i might do that... thanks heaps your a life saver.... hug hug
You're welcome. Good luck! :)