I really need help, me and my ex broke up in march, but we kept hooking up and having sex, talking once in a while but not really. He recently went on vacation, a few days before he left we had sex it was nice he acted like he cared and told me he didn't like anyone, then he took a shower I looked at his aim conversation and he was talking to a girl lke he liked but I didn't say anything since he swore to me he didn't like anyone. When he left I was at a party and his friends were there they told me he doesn't care about me or what I do and that he likes someone else, so since I was drunk and mad I hooked upwith his friend. I later found out he didn't like anyone, so when he came back I told him what happened, he wanted to fight his friend and it was very dramatic he texted me yellign at me but that showed me he cared about me, he told me he needs time and I siad I would wait for him. A few days later I saw him at the gym he said hi to me, but still doesn't talk to me and avoids me. Should I keep waiting or just giveup

Sleeping with his friend and him talking to girls as if he likes them is bad, and then its really bad when he keeps sleeping with you and doesn't care for you to be his girlfriend. He's just mad at the guy beause he wants his cake and to eat it too... but I wouldn't read into it. I think you should move on right now and fast and if he wants you he'll call you. Don't wait around

I'm sorry to say this and it may be harsh but...

You did this to yourself, and he may and probably will never forgive you. Only time will tell and I wouldn't press anything not even a conversation over the phone on him right now because that might kill the slim chance you might still have with him.

What the above poster said is correct. Let this be a lesson to you never to listen to (or spread) hearsay.

If in doubt always ask them. If they care enough they will tell you. You are in a rough place but try to give it time, things my work out in the end, just be sure you are going to be committed to this decision.

Just let everything work itself out. Sorry, but you got yourself into a pretty bad situation.