Hi there, I pray someone can help me here.
I was with my ex for 5 years ever since I was 16. He was my first true love and I still feel he is the only one for me. We had our ups and downs like every other relationship and about a year ago he left me and led me on for about 9 months until he found out this girl he was seeing was pregnant. Well he married her and got her pregnant all within a year. He told his best friend that he was miserable and that he had made a mistake and wanted a divorce. But he only talked like that for about a day. I just wonder if I can get any idea on if they will last forever? He is a cop and after he became a cop his heart hardened. I don't know if he can still possibly love me or even miss me. But he has a new life now, I just wonder if there is any hope left becaues I miss him more than the world and would do anything in my power just to have my love back. Can someone please help me.:confused:

Hmm... remember that thing where he is MARRIED? You should know that since you fell so hard for so long, the feelings will take a while to go away. He is married and has a family. He has moved on... shouldn't you? And I know it hurts a lot to let go of someone you love (Lord knows I've done it before) but you should know that when you love someone the most is when you are willing to let them go in order for them to be happy. Keep that in mind while you let go and try dating someone new, and hopefully time will make things easier and eventually, you will start to struggle to remember details of his face. Eventually, he will be that guy you dated that you did love but got over and who taught you a valuable thing about relationships. Best Wishes & Good Luck:)