Hi I'm new to this site and got a cool new mp4 player but don't know how to load the music can you guys please help me with step by step instructions. Thanks

Did you read the manual that came with it? Generally MP3 players connect to your PC via a USB port. You can then copy the files to the device like you would any file. However, if the device support WMA files (Windows media Player), You can create playlists in that and easily transfer them.