Basically, I can help all my friends with all their problems but I can't help myself in one area... dating/guys. For some reason there is always a guy in my life who is either a boyfriend or a crush or who likes me. I don't seek the attention and I don't want someone there just because. I want to actually have a commitment kind of thing going. How can I put a hold on my "love life" without completely altering my life?

Hello.

Many times its easy to help other but helping yourself is always the hardest. Put yourself on the outside looking in as if you are asking the question and go with your answer.

Friends are one thing and a Relationship is an other. Keep your guy friends as friends and in time one of them might grow to be Mr. Right. Be honest with them that your only wanting to be friends so that your not building hurt feelings.

Good Luck
Dennis777

Thanks:) But you see... when they're like super sweet to me I ALWAYS fall for them... it's stupid but I don't know how to stop that from happening...

Sweety

That's when you need to slow yourself down and look at them as friends not Boyfriends. You can be sweet to each other as friends but don't cross the line. You have that control if you want to use it. Wouldn't it be better to use control now then hurt each other later.

Dennis777

I know you're right... thank you for your help:)