Second post after what I found out about my ex yesterday:

If you haven't read the other... that's fine... I'll just summarize a little here:

Bad breakup. I tried and tried and she was very mean. I apologized and admitted my wrongs and she, to this day, has never said sorry for anything. She actually said she was not sorry for anything.

I find out yesterday that this girl, my ex, has been sleeping around like crazy. She was NEVER like this when I met her. That's one reason I liked her!

We break up and... this is all recent stuff... she's gone nuts! Thing is, though, we broke up like 6 months ago. So I don't see it as rebound.

She's dating like 5 guys... she's gone back to one of her ex-boyfriends, she has been fooling around with one of his best friends. And every guy she's been fooling around with is someone from her past before me. No one new. One of my friends heard about it and told me, and I looked on the net, and there are tons of pics of her and all sorts of guys. All the photos are her absolutely wasted. Or her with a beer in-hand. Even if cleaning the kitchen.

What the heck happened? (btw she is still young... only 21).

Is this normal? Again, I could see it being normal on a rebound for like the first two months... but six months later?

I've been trying to improve myself: going to church, reading the Bible, spending more time with my parents and helping them with yardwork. Working out. Taking taekwondo. Helping my friends with their relationships.

Is this just the diff in guys and girls?

Why is she doing this now?

She wants to go wild. Let her do it, forget all about her and get with a quality girl. Keep the self-improvements you are doing, as I believe they will help alleviate that situation in terms of making it disappear.

My guess is that somewhere down the line, she will see that you were the best man to ever walk in her life. She will see at this time all the men she has been with since you have been nothing but her little play-toys. Keep your head up and persevere.

XenoSapien

Hay mate. He will remember and you will be contacted one day. They ALWAYS do they realise whatbthe lost ALWAYS!! ALAYS these typeof girls will remember..

Does that go for guys too? That they remember how great they had it? Its been 2 years since the break up, 5 months of NC after trying to stay friends... just curious...

You sound like a dream come true! Hold out for someone worth your while, and don't agonize over this one. If only I had daughters instead of sons...