My ex and I broke up about 2 weeks and a half ago, but I still dream of him almost every night. The dreams aren't random weird things. They're always about him and I being together like before and just hanging out enjoying each others company. Last night, he hugged me really tight and kissed me and said he'd made a mistake and wants me back.

The dreams really hurt and when I wake, I feel like crying. But still every night I hope I'll dream of him. What should I do?

Well When You Say Last Night He Hugged You Tight And Kissed You Was It Real Or The Dream?? My Mom Told Me When I Had Bad Dreams (in Your Case Its Not A Bad Dream) To Think Of Other Things Like Being In A Candy Store Or Something Along Those Lines And It Worked... Stop Going To Bed Trying To Dream Of Him And Maybe It Won't Happen..

I think until you accept that he is gone, and stop holding out hope he will be back, and do other things in your life you will have these dreams, since the relationship is still very fresh to you. We always remember the good times, but forget the bad, and that's selective memory, and it would help to be objective, and realise the bad times are what broke you up in the first place.

Depending on your age and how long and intence the relationship was,2 1/2 weeks isn't really all that long to get over someone,but all that being said best thing to do is not live on the hope that he will turn up on your doorstep and want you back and even if he did do you really think that the reason you guys broke up will just be automaticlly forgotten?best if you go out with your friends have a good time and try to distract yourself from him and enjoy being single, as hard as it may be at first it will get better trust me.

I'm going through the same thing right now and the worst part is when u wake up and realize it was just a dream... I know how u feel! Believe me! People say that its just a phase u have to go through and it takes time to get over it but in your case its still brand new, for me its been 2 1/2 months so it just depends on the person how long it will take to get over it. Before u go to sleep at night try to think of something else besides him and maybe u won't dream about him because I know that most of the time when I have those kind of dreams its because he was on my mind before I went to sleep so yea just try that and if it don't help just know that it takes time and eventually u'll be over it =]

It's been 5 months for me, although I still dream of her every night I don't have as many dreams of her during the night as in the beginning. And actually dreaming of other things now. I hope that's a sign the pain is almost over.