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UnwantedHero
Jul 11, 2007, 01:33 AM
Ive always been a very jealous person No matter what I've always wanted what I either can't have or what others have.but my main concern is my jealously towards girls.I get really jealous when I see guys with really good looking girls or when I like a girl and another guy has her especially when guys treat girls like crap or are total jerks and have the girls.Im not really talking the normal jealously that most people have but one that is also driven by anger and frustration.I have been put on medication for anger and anxiety.how can I let go of my jealosly that I get so easyily?

Bluerose
Jul 11, 2007, 02:19 AM
Sounds like more than jealously. Sounds to me like you are very immature and the only thing to do is learn to control your emotions. It can be done. You have already recognised that there is a problem and that is the first step, and a really good one. Now I would say the next step is to find and concentrate on what makes you happy instead of what makes you unhappy, angry, anxious and jealous. There are some wonderful sites on the net where you can read and learn about taking control of your life and your emotions.

Think about checking them out, especially if you don't want to be on meds for the rest of your life.

Good luck and God bless. Take care.