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mahm6266
Jul 9, 2007, 11:06 PM
I was touching my bfs penis and some discharge came out. It was like water and it was on my hand. I washed my hand after that but can I get pregnant from that? I don't remember all the details like me touching myself down there afterwards but I'm sure I didn't. Even so it wasn't real sperm it was precum which DOES contain sperm but I don't know I'm paranoid. I've been reading about pregnancy symptoms and I have most of them. I don't know I never had sexual intercourse he only touched me down there that too with my panties and pants on. Do you think I'm pregnant?

nauticalstar420
Jul 9, 2007, 11:08 PM
No, I can say with 99.9% certainty (just because anything is possible) that you are not pregnant! Pregnancy symptoms are similar to symptoms of other illnesses. If you are feeling sick, you should go see your doctor. :)

mahm6266
Jul 9, 2007, 11:10 PM
No I don't feel sick. But I feel "pregnant" because I've been reading so much on pregnancy. Its ruining my life. I can't help to think about it. I really want to get my period so I know for a fact. Thts not happening.

rankrank55
Jul 9, 2007, 11:12 PM
Don't you have this same post posted under a different heading?

nauticalstar420
Jul 9, 2007, 11:12 PM
Stop reading about pregnancy! You are just freaking yourself out! :) What are some of the pregnancy symptoms you have? You can't just simply "feel" pregnant if you haven't ever been pregnant, you wouldn't know what to look for.

rankrank55
Jul 9, 2007, 11:14 PM
Here is your other post... https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/womens-health/pregnant-stressed-108417.html
Anyway, I definitely agree with nstar! You just need to calm down and see your doctor. That will clear A LOT of things up for you; they can rule out pregnancy with a blood test and see if you have some sort of illness.

mahm6266
Jul 9, 2007, 11:15 PM
Lol its whatever I read like fatique, tiredness, frequent urination, feeling pregnant, miss period, backaches, food cravings. I don't know I think that precum is driving me insane and I read it can get inside you even when clothing is on.

mahm6266
Jul 9, 2007, 11:16 PM
YES I do! That's how paranoid I am.

nauticalstar420
Jul 9, 2007, 11:17 PM
Where did you read that? Getting pregnant by precum without having sex happens to one in a million people, trust me. Is it possible you are reading so much into this that in turn you could actually be causing the symptoms in your mind? :)

mahm6266
Jul 9, 2007, 11:18 PM
Then why am I having these symptoms. I don't know its all true too that's the sad part.

rankrank55
Jul 9, 2007, 11:19 PM
That's the point that I have been trying to get across to her in the other thread! It's all in the mind!

nauticalstar420
Jul 9, 2007, 11:20 PM
I can't tell you why you are having these symptoms, but bottom line, you didn't have sex, you aren't pregnant. Like I said, you should see your doctor in case you have some sort of illness, OR, like I said above, you are in a way making yourself a hypochondriac (thinking about it so much that you are getting the symptoms... its all in your head!) :)

Myth
Jul 10, 2007, 12:29 AM
This is going to be a bit harsh. I have been looking at this since it was first posted... mahm6266 go to the store buy a pregnancy test and face the facts. You are not pregnant. You didn't have sex. Precum can get you pregnant under the right circumstances. You were not in those by a long shot. Get a test and get over it... Stop stressing and you'll have your period. Quit reading about pregnancy and you'll stop "feeling pregnant". You are acting like a love starved puppy dog with this obsession and you really need to stop for your own mental health. Honestly if you were my sister or niece I would have probably slapped you just to knock some sense into you. Until you take a test your not going to accept that your not. I am getting really sick of your lack of hearing on this matter. We have told you in two different threads what your chances of being pregnant are and still you refuse to listen. I would advise you to go and seek counseling for this obsession, cause your just ignoring all the facts that you've read along with all the symptoms. Until you listen I'm not wasting my breath so to speak anymore. I advise the other member to do the same. Get some help from a dr.

alkalineangel
Jul 10, 2007, 06:33 AM
Stop reading about pregnancy and read this... this is your problem... it is all pshycological hun. Our brains are amazing instraments with great power...

Pseudocyesis - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/False_pregnancy)

mahm6266
Jul 10, 2007, 08:58 PM
Its not that I wasn't llistening to you guys. Don't get me wrong you guys have helped me calm down a lot. But its just that I'm not getting my period and I guess I will wait till the end of the month to see if I get it or not. I got that brown discharge in the 20s with a little bit of blood in June so is it a good idea to wait and see till the 20s of this month?

nauticalstar420
Jul 10, 2007, 09:10 PM
Just go to the doctor and let him take a look at you :)

mahm6266
Jul 10, 2007, 09:59 PM
What does having a white clear white discharge mean with a few cramps in the lower abdomen here and there mean?

nauticalstar420
Jul 10, 2007, 10:02 PM
White clear discharge means you are ovulating. I already told you this. You really should just go see a doctor.

rankrank55
Jul 10, 2007, 10:04 PM
Is it egg white consistancy? If so, probably ovulation and if it is ovulation then you will have your period in about 14 days.

mahm6266
Jul 10, 2007, 10:05 PM
Yea its not yellow or anything.

mahm6266
Jul 10, 2007, 10:05 PM
By the way are you guys doctors or anything? How do you know so much about such things.

rankrank55
Jul 10, 2007, 10:06 PM
Is it EGG WHITE consistancy?

nauticalstar420
Jul 10, 2007, 10:08 PM
You don't need to be a doctor to know about the menstrual cycle, especially since we are women.

mahm6266
Jul 10, 2007, 10:08 PM
What is egg white consistency? I'm not sure

nauticalstar420
Jul 10, 2007, 10:08 PM
what is egg white consistency? im not sure

Like when you crack an egg open and look at the clear part. Is it like that?

mahm6266
Jul 10, 2007, 10:10 PM
Not THAT clear. Like not transparent. If I whipe it and see the tissue, ill see something slimy on it like you can see because its shiny but there's no dark solid color to it. So like clear-ish white.

nauticalstar420
Jul 10, 2007, 10:11 PM
not THAT clear. like not transparent. if i whipe it and see the tissue, ill see something slimy on it like u can see because its shiny but theres no dark solid color to it. so like clear-ish white.

I'm not talking about color. Consistency means, how can I put this, is it gooey like an egg white?

rankrank55
Jul 10, 2007, 10:13 PM
Can you stretch it between your fingers?

mahm6266
Jul 10, 2007, 10:13 PM
Yes at times

mahm6266
Jul 10, 2007, 10:14 PM
I never touched it lol just saw it on tissue

nauticalstar420
Jul 10, 2007, 10:15 PM
Okay, that just means you are ovulating. You are fine! :)

mahm6266
Jul 10, 2007, 10:16 PM
Oh okay. Thank u. so after this happens, the ovulating process, you get your period in the following 2 weeks?

nauticalstar420
Jul 10, 2007, 10:17 PM
Yes about 14 days later as rank stated. Its just a matter of waiting hun. You are not pregnant, and you have nothing wrong with you that I can tell from here. :)

mahm6266
Jul 10, 2007, 10:19 PM
Thanks a lot. I think ill shut up now because I pretty much got my questions answered. Lol

Myth
Jul 11, 2007, 11:29 AM
We're not dr's at all but we do have the experience that comes with either being pregnant or from having children. That is how we know about our bodies and why we help answer questions on here. I'm glad you have gotten everything cleared up. The discharge *egg white* should look very similar to when you blow your nose and have a clear or semi clear snot. That is the best way I can describe it to you. The cramping is more than likely your overies releasing an egg to be fertilized. It takes about a week for the egg to travel down your fallopian tube to your uterus and then when it either gets fertalized or not it implants, connects to the lining of your uterus. If your not fertalized then you shed that lining and have a period. If you are the egg implants and you are pregnant. I hope that explains a bit about how our bodies work.