I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 26 so I don't think we should be having sex problems. I don't know if I'm just weird or what but I want to have sex ALL THE TIME. My boyfriend only wants to have it a couple times a week. When we first starting having sex he wanted it all the time. Does that mean I'm less attractive to him? I have talked to him about it and he says it's not that and he's just tired most of the time... I just think it's odd that I want it and he doesn't... shouldn't it be the other way around? When we do have sex it's really good. I just don't know what I should do... live with the fact I'll never be fully satisfied or should we see a doctor or something? I don't want to leave him, I love him with all my heart. But sex is a big thing for me in a relationship.

Well Im 21 And My Boyfriend Is 29 And In The Beginning We Always Had Sex And After About 2 Years... Its Went Downhill... He Never Really Wants To Have Sex But I Do... I Tease Him All The Time About His Age... I Always Ask Like Do You Want Me To Buy You Some Viagra To Get You Excited? Lol... Sex Shouldn't Be A Big Thing In A Relationship And Its Sad If It Is For You... Its Not All About Sex...

Hello.

Your not alone, most couples have this same problem. It's not always the Man saying he doesn't get it. In fact you will find that Men might say it to look cool but in reality Men are mostly the ones that are to tired to Make Love. That's not to say its always the Man.

There are a number of ways you can work through this, because this is an open site I'm not going to go into all the ways but I'm sure you will get the idea.

What normally comes to mind is take care of yourself and buy plenty of batteries hehehe. But there is more to it then that. If your not being fulfilled then your missing something when your Making Love. Most of the time if you want it all the time your missing something that you need and not getting. He might need to do more for you during the times you do Make Love or do it in a way that brings you enjoyment that is more long lasting. Its like being hungry, you can eat a snack and take care of the hunger for a short time but to make it through the day you need a meal. You can help also by making the times you do have more special. Foreplay isn't just in the bedroom and it adds to the excitement so let the days your not Making Love be the days you plan things to do on the special days.

Once you both start thinking about each other sexually he will want it more and you will need it less because your being satisfied more.

Good Luck
Dennis777

Look after your sexual needs by yourself, between times. This may provide less pressure for him to perform, but with your needs catered to as well.

DO you do the same thing the same way all the time? I've been married for 16 years (I'm mid 40's she's early 40's) and we still get it going almost every day. But we do keep things interesting...