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byou
Jul 8, 2007, 08:02 AM
I want another child but my husband says no and I try to force him to get mr pregnant and he just laughs want can I do?:confused:

shygrneyzs
Jul 8, 2007, 08:09 AM
He will end up leaving you if you persist in wanting a baby and he does not want a baby. That is a fundamental and crucial difference in opinion between you two.

Have you tried to rationally sit down and talk to your husband about this? Without all the drama and emotion and tears and carrying on? Explain why you want this baby. Why do you want another child? Then listen to him!

Maybe he thinks the time is not right, maybe he feels one child now is enough, who knows all the reaons! But listen to him and try to understand what he says. It is not unlikely that he would stop having a physical relationship with you if you persist when he is disagreeing. There has to be a compromise here.

alkalineangel
Jul 8, 2007, 08:10 AM
You definitely can not force him. It will cause a rift between you. Have you sat down and really discussed your feelings with each other. Maybe he doesn't see that it is something you really want.

babieface85
Jul 9, 2007, 02:03 PM
I feel for you. I love kids. It must be very hard having someone (your husband) tell you not to have another child. However, I know that it is very hard being pregnant and being in a relationship with someone who does not want the child. I can't really give you advice because I do not know much about your relationship or financial situation. The info would really help us to give sound advice.