I am looking for a word that will describe somewhere between civilized and formal

Polite as in polite soceity

I am looking for a word that will describe somewhere between civilized and formal
It is out of question. It lookse like asking I am looking forward a word which describes something between apple and orange, so before asking look for connection between objects or phenomenon.

it is out of question. it lookse like asking i am looking foward a word which describes some thing between apple and orange, so befor asking look for connection between objects or phenomenon.
That's easy for you to say.