My boyfriend and I tried having sex for the second time, and again, I really didn't feel much, I felt the pain of it going in, and I felt what was happening, but I really didn't feel pleasure at all, but I faked it because I wanted him to at least get something out of this, now.. we didn't wear a condom, he said he didn't or anything but I'm still worried that I could be pregnant. I started feeling sick a few days after we had sex and I'm worried that I am. Also, I felt a burning feeling.. is that normal?

Yes, it is possible that you are pregnant if you did not use protection. Even if he said he did not orgasm, he had what is called pre-ejaculate and neither you nor he knows when this is happening and it does contain sperm.

A burning feeling? During or after? Is it when you urinate?

What is your age?

Okay, about the pregnancy, if he didn't ejaculate then you would have gotten pregnant by precum. There are low numbers of sperm in precum, but they are still there. It is a lower risk of pregnancy than a regular ejeculation, but it still is possible. The best way to be sure is to take a pregnancy test :)

As far as the burning feeling, this could be a combination of your second time having sex and you were a little too dry. Try using lubrication next time and it will make it a little more comfortable.

Yes, it is possible that you are pregnant if you did not use protection. Even if he said he did not orgasm, he had what is called pre-ejaculate and neither you nor he knows when this is happening and it does contain sperm.

A burning feeling? During or after? Is it when you urinate?

What is your age?

He told me that he didn't precum.. so I'm not sure what to do. The burning feeling was after, and no it's not when I urinate, it's all the time.

As far as I know, men can't tell when they're precumming, so he wouldn't be able to tell you that he didn't. If the burning feeling resembled a "raw" feeling, then you need to use lubrication.

Okay, about the pregnancy, if he didnt ejaculate then you would have gotten pregnant by precum. There are low numbers of sperm in precum, but they are still there. It is a lower risk of pregnancy than a regular ejeculation, but it still is possible. The best way to be sure is to take a pregnancy test :)

As far as the burning feeling, this could be a combination of your second time having sex and you were a little too dry. Try using lubrication next time and it will make it a little more comfortable.

I thought about being too dry, but he said I was really wet, so I'm really not sure. Is it possible that I got an STD? He said he's been tested and he doesn't have any and I trust him. I'm going to get a pregnancy test today.

You can get tested for an STD if you choose to, better safe than sorry :) I still think you might have been a little too dry. If you really weren't enjoying it as much as he was and lost interest a little bit, that would dry you out. :)

Thank you for your advice, I appreciate it.

You're very welcome :)

The burning could be caused by many different things... you should be tested for STI's frequently while you're sexually active, so go get tested! They'll be able to do a pregnancy test at the same time.

Thank you all for your advice, it's appreciated greatly. =]

Get checked for an STD but it is more likely dryness-lack of lubrication.

Get checked for pregnancy-urine test at the doctor's, then USE PROTECTION!

Don't rely on trust when it comes to STDs-both get checked at the same time-that way you both will have a "clean slate" in your new relationship.

Cheers

Is there a reason you skipped the age question?

Is there a reason you skipped the age question??


I'd like to know that one as well, actually.