So guys...

I am asking you, what are the things we(ladies) have done or about us that you think intimidates you?? :confused:

Again, all the comments, answers and advice are appreciated.

Thank you hun!

A strong woman will intimidate a guy. Are you writing a book or something?

An attractive, very good looking woman

Right?

A strong woman will intimidate a guy. Are you writing a book or something?

Hahahaha, I like your answer. TO your question: no I am not, I am just wondering. By the way, do you mean physically strong?? Or mentally strong?:rolleyes:

An attractive, very good looking woman

Right?

Like you are, hun:p hm... my understanding of intimidating is scaring... what is wrong with being good looking attractive? It scares guys away? Or my understanding of it has been wrong?:eek:

like you are, hun:p hm...my understanding of intimidating is scaring...what is wrong with being good looking attractive? it scares guys away? or my understanding of it has been wrong?:eek:

I haven't said that but anyway... That's when they become painfully shy and mortally intimidated because it might affect their ego and then, they become fearful and don't think of themselves deserving, so they prefer staring while being in their comfort zone and avoid putting themselves on the line, and find excuses for themselves when they actually shouldn't. :rolleyes: It's sad!

Where have all the guys gone?
We need some CONCRETE answers here. :D

Mentally strong. Idependant. Doesn't need a man's help.

mentally strong. Idependant. Doesn't need a man's help.

I see... that makes lot of sense. Hey u play v-ball? I do too which college u play at?:rolleyes:

I play 7 th grade vball lol!

-_-; lol

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woh337 agrees: well explained... I know... what are the guys?

I meant "where are the guys?"

Hello.

Lets see a man will feel intimidated when his Lady has to put on her glasses when he drops his shorts.

If his Lady asks him to let her know when he is done.

When his hooker charges by the inch and she has to pay him.

Ok lets get real... Many Men feel threatened by any Lady that is more powerfully then he is. It can be looks, money, schooling. The problem is that same Man will always be wishing he had more. If a Man is happy with who he is and what he has then he will see a lady that has more as a positive not a negative.

Dennis777

I play 7 th grade vball lol!

That's awesome! :)

Real men are not intimidated by anyone let alone a female. So its safe to assume if you have a man who is intimidated by you for whatever reason, he isn't a real man. Having said that, he may be to in love to be intimidated by you. Having said that he may be intimidated by you because his social skills are not matured and honed to razor sharpness and he will be a real man soon, but can't wait. But even having said that, are you sure its intimidation your seeing and not just he is turned off and wants to get away? You have to be careful using words like intimidation, as it tends to intimidate those you ask questions of. That is of course should be noted that real men are not intimidated, by a mere word, in fact can be quite turned on by a female that can potentially kick their A$$, but that has nothing to do with being intimidated, its just a sex thing, like staring at a female, just the things we guys do to enjoy the females, and are not intimidated unless caught at it. At which case we let you feel like we are intimidated since all we want to do is get away from you before you get the idea to kick our a$$ and we know how intimidating, and embarrassing that can be , so to answer your question, NO!

I am just curious about it, it has nothing to do with the "Staring at chicks" post!
U sound like a real man;)

Real men are not intimidated by anyone let alone a female. So its safe to assume if you have a man who is intimidated by you for whatever reason, he isn't a real man. Having said that, he may be to in love to be intimidated by you. Having said that he may be intimidated by you because his social skills are not matured and honed to razor sharpness and he will be a real man soon, but can't wait. But even having said that, are you sure its intimidation your seeing and not just he is turned off and wants to get away?? You have to be careful using words like intimidation, as it tends to intimidate those you ask questions of. That is of course should be noted that real men are not intimidated, by a mere word, in fact can be quite turned on by a female that can potentially kick their A$$, but that has nothing to do with being intimidated, its just a sex thing, like staring at a female, just the things we guys do to enjoy the females, and are not intimidated unless caught at it. At which case we let you feel like we are intimidated since all we want to do is get away from you before you get the idea to kick our a$$ and we know how intimidating, and embarrassing that can be , so to answer your question, NO!

Except for this, what's a "real man"?

Except for this, what's a "real man"?

Real man is HUno:D :o ;)

Real man is HUno:D :o ;)

God! You love him that much and he's not even here now! I can't believe it! :D

But I think he's cheating on you. :rolleyes: I'm sure he's out on a date with someone or preparing for it... :p

Are you with him now?
Oops, you think he got depoted by to Mexico? Dang, I told him get the citizenship earlier... :D

r u with him now?
Oops, u think he got depoted by to Mexico? dang, I told him get the citizenship ealier...:D

LOL WHAT? I'm in Canada, he's in the States.

I don't know. Talk to him, not to me. :)

Woh337.

Is that funny looking or funny talking. Could it be funny in an good way or a bad way. Im not sure if I have been put down or praised. Hehehe

When surrounded by some of the smartest and sexyest Ladies on earth (yes all you Ladies, each in your own way) A Real man will make a joke or two so he can slip away in the crowd hehehe. (slippen Away)

Woh337.

Is that funny looking or funny talking. Could it be funny in an good way or a bad way. Im not sure if i have been put down or praised. Hehehe

When surrounded by some of the smartest and sexyest Ladies on earth (yes all you Ladies, each in your own way) A Real man will make a joke or two so he can slip away in the crowd hehehe. (slippen Away)

Funny talking:D wonder what do u look like?:rolleyes: u've got my attention at least;)

Woh337

Think about the best looking guy you have ever seen and then add a bank account that can make any Lady happy... NOPE that's not me hehhee

Im just an old fart... 6'4" 225 lbs of fun loving Man. I know. I know You didn't know they could stack S**t that high hehehe

Intimidate or scare / drive away

- jealousy
- neediness
- being high maintenance - see above
- not letting us be guys [ hang with our friends, watch sports etc.. ]
- a critical nature - i.e. nagging
- shopping
- questions that have no good answer like "do I look ... in this?"
- playing mind games - whatever that means - because most guys don'y have a chance



And not to end on a negative note

I think independence, intelligence, a sense of humor, honesty, kindness are very attractive.






Grace and Peace

I think independence, intelligence, a sense of humor, honesty, kindness are very attractive.






Grace and Peace

Thank you taht's what I want to hear... well, yea I of course agree with what u have said before that too! Good advice!:)

The question is what intimidates girls?

the question is what intimidates girls?

Guys who work out too much and drink too much!! :D

Lol you trying to say something about the irish??

I thought girls would go for the beefed up guy, glad to know I'm wrong lol

lol you tryin to say somethin bout the irish?????

i thought girls would go for the beefed up guy, glad to know im wrong lol

No I am not , I like irsh guys, my favourite prof. is from Ireland, by the way, you are not online? I added you to my msn:rolleyes: ;)

Lol I am online, you sure you typed the rite address in? [email protected]

the question is what intimidates girls?

Nothing :D... except a guy who can read our minds.

Ahh like mel gibson?

ahh like mel gibson?

Eww no, not really... but kind of. :D Not really what I meant.

Lol I know but old mad max was in What Women Want you know

lol i know but old mad max was in What Women Want ya know
Yeah, I know that

A girl who can bench 400 lbs

Are you sure you guys are okay with women being breadwinner?

Only if you "make it rain" on a consistent basis.

only if you "make it rain" on a consistent basis.

What do u mean?:confused:

YouTube - Fat Joe feat Lil Wayne - Make It Rain (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F2drwcV1l28)

Wow, you are so cool, I love them,lol

Yikes.

yikes.

For shizzle:cool:

I think guys feel intimidated when they allow another person to take away their "power".

A very attractive woman might be intimidating to a guy if he thinks she has the power to reject him, ridicule him, or somehow diminish his status.

A man might be intimidated by a woman who is becoming emotional - especially if he doesn't know how to handle the woman or the situation.

Anytime a guy perceives a woman as "out of his league" for whatever reason - money, status, intelligence, appearance... whatever - he is going to feel intimidated.

I certainly felt that way when I was younger - And sometimes I still do! However -
A "mature man" comes to understand that these things are no cause for him to feel intimidated.

I think guys feel intimidated when they allow another person to take away their "power".

A very attractive woman might be intimidating to a guy if he thinks she has the power to reject him, ridicule him, or somehow diminish his status.


I certainly felt that way when I was younger - And sometimes I still do! However -
A "mature man" comes to understand that these things are no cause for him to feel intimidated.

You are a real man now! How long takes a guy to get over with it?:)

How long does it take for a guy to get over being intimidated by women?

Some guys get it early, or are simply "naturals" with women. Some men struggle with these issues through their entire life and never quite get it figured out.

You can only be intimidated if you let it happen. So once you feel good about yourself there is no reason to feel that way. In fact you can use it to make your own life much better. If its looks then you can walk around with a 10 cool, if its money then fantastic you don't have to worry about paying the bills each month. If its education then learn from them and build your own power from them.

Face it, we are all different and that's what makes life exciting.

Dennis777

You can only be intimidated if you let it happen.
Face it, we are all different and thats what makes life exciting.

Dennis777

Dennis, I was giving u more reputation, but it didn't let me.

I want to say thank you! That is such a great answer!:)

Woh337

Awwwwwwwww Shucks, I get lucky sometimes hehehe.

Woh337

Awwwwwwwww Shucks, I get lucky sometimes hehehe.


Whoooooo dude, I'm afraid that lucky lady is taking... by me ;)

Lol

whoooooo dude, im afraid that lucky lady is takin... by me ;)

lol


I was talking about getting lucky with the answer not her hehehe... But I guess that makes you the Lucky Guy for being with such a sweet Lady.

I was talking about getting lucky with the answer not her hehehe... But i guess that makes you the Lucky Guy for being with such a sweet Lady
zooropa1985 agrees: lol im not really with her, dont worry :)

Ha~Will, u are going to get punished again! :rolleyes:

Mmmmmmmmmm Punished, sounds like fun to me... I have been a Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaad Boy hehehe

Mmmmmmmmmm Punished, sounds like fun to me... I have been a Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaad Boy hehehe
Sorry but I am not talking to you:D

Woh337

WOW I guess I have been told hehehe

Lol she's going to tie be down in a chair and eat strawberries in front of me, she's evil!!

What will intimidate guys? LOL, I thought I am the only one wonders about this?
Hugs, Woh337!!

lol shes gonna tie be down in a chair and eat strawberries in front of me, shes evil!!!!!

LOL, are we doing this again? ;)

Guys are only intimidated by us because they know that we can do anything they can do just as good and we can do even more! HAVE KIDS haha I am only 14 and a half but o well. I haven't ever had a boyfriend and its 6 days till my 15th b-day I like the wrong people and just want my happy ending. I think guys get intimidated by smart girls.

What the hell is going on in this thread? I am way lost...

Well, I think this was the best post on this thread thus far:


A very attractive woman might be intimidating to a guy if he thinks she has the power to reject him, ridicule him, or somehow diminish his status.

I think men fear how women affect our social status. Now, you can also say that this is true:


Anytime a guy perceives a woman as "out of his league" for whatever reason - money, status, intelligence, appearance... whatever - he is going to feel intimidated.

Although for me, I don't care how rich, intelligent or important she is--the appearance is what sometimes gets me.

The thing, though, is that all that advice is trumped by this golden line:


fo shizzle :cool:

That just says it all. :)

When a man is intimidated its cause he has no bollitas (balls in spanish) and when he gains some cofidence he grows a set. And he moves from there. Intimadation is all in the mind.