mag oblivious
Jun 30, 2007, 02:30 AM
Hi!
I think my husband is addicted to drugs, but I can't prove it. I'm the one holding down a full time job, while he sits at home. When my payday comes, I hand him over my paycheck so he can pay the bills and get groceries, comsidering, from what he says, I can't do that myself. Now, my bills are behind, and I know I make enough money to pay them, so where is the money going? He said he's had trouble before with addictions, and I'm afraid that he may be addicted again. When I ask him why the bills aren't paid, he just turns away from me and won't give me an answer. He always asks me, " don't you trust me?" the fact is, it's not a matter of trust, it's a matter of missing money. He's also moody, not interested in sex, or even getting close to me. He's also not buying that much for groceries any more. I've already said something to his family about his behaviour, but no one wants to listen to me. He's also shown signs that he MAY be abusing my niece. How can I prove anything? He's rummaging around our room in the dark, and hiding money from me. Anybody have any suggestions? Please help me.:confused:
I think my husband is addicted to drugs, but I can't prove it. I'm the one holding down a full time job, while he sits at home. When my payday comes, I hand him over my paycheck so he can pay the bills and get groceries, comsidering, from what he says, I can't do that myself. Now, my bills are behind, and I know I make enough money to pay them, so where is the money going? He said he's had trouble before with addictions, and I'm afraid that he may be addicted again. When I ask him why the bills aren't paid, he just turns away from me and won't give me an answer. He always asks me, " don't you trust me?" the fact is, it's not a matter of trust, it's a matter of missing money. He's also moody, not interested in sex, or even getting close to me. He's also not buying that much for groceries any more. I've already said something to his family about his behaviour, but no one wants to listen to me. He's also shown signs that he MAY be abusing my niece. How can I prove anything? He's rummaging around our room in the dark, and hiding money from me. Anybody have any suggestions? Please help me.:confused: