sweetiez
Jun 29, 2007, 05:12 PM
Me and my ex (well now ex) dont get along at all. He is controlling and abusive! He calls me names ectect..
but we have a daughter together. we are young only 21 years old. I really want to do an open adoption for her. where we are still in her life somewhat but she is in the care of a stable family.
My problem. Im unsure if her father will sign over his rights. He said Idk.
but i talked 2 some people about this and i was told we can't go through an open adoption unless he signs over his rights. Or i go 2 court to prove he is an unfit parent. but thats soo hard to prove. I thought the mother had basically all rights to do what she feel is right for the child? Maybe im wrong. But i dont want her growing up like this! .
So if he doesnt sign over his rights.. and i can't prove it then is she just stuck with this situation? i just want the best for her. Is there anything i can do? He is on the birth certificate. He is making everything so difficult!.
I live in Minnesota,USA by the way. what can i do?
I even found a wonderful family. i just want whats best for my daughter.
Her father even told a close friend of ours that its me and hollyanns fault he is like this and doesn't have his "freedom"
Please help me!:confused:
but we have a daughter together. we are young only 21 years old. I really want to do an open adoption for her. where we are still in her life somewhat but she is in the care of a stable family.
My problem. Im unsure if her father will sign over his rights. He said Idk.
but i talked 2 some people about this and i was told we can't go through an open adoption unless he signs over his rights. Or i go 2 court to prove he is an unfit parent. but thats soo hard to prove. I thought the mother had basically all rights to do what she feel is right for the child? Maybe im wrong. But i dont want her growing up like this! .
So if he doesnt sign over his rights.. and i can't prove it then is she just stuck with this situation? i just want the best for her. Is there anything i can do? He is on the birth certificate. He is making everything so difficult!.
I live in Minnesota,USA by the way. what can i do?
I even found a wonderful family. i just want whats best for my daughter.
Her father even told a close friend of ours that its me and hollyanns fault he is like this and doesn't have his "freedom"
Please help me!:confused: