ttgoodwin
Jun 28, 2007, 05:41 AM
Hi there. My 16 year old step son is living in Arizona with his bio mother. She abandoned him and his two brothers with my husband about 10 years ago and he's had full physical custody since then. A year ago the 16 yr old poisoned me and threatened his brothers' lives. We had him in residential treatment until the insurance gave out and then his mother asked for him to live with her. He was all for it and we thought we checked it out thoroughly but turns out (found out after he was there about 3 months) that she was doing drugs and was completely incompetent to care for him. CPS in Arizona now says that we have to send him a bus ticket 'home' which we cannot do because we will likely lose custody of our two smaller children if we do this.
We thought about emancipating him, transferring custody, or even job corps. Job corps is out because he's been doing drugs, emancipation seems to be out because he's not capable of caring for himself so we're down to transferring custody to his girlfriend's mother. She seems willing but we don't know what to do next.
We thought about emancipating him, transferring custody, or even job corps. Job corps is out because he's been doing drugs, emancipation seems to be out because he's not capable of caring for himself so we're down to transferring custody to his girlfriend's mother. She seems willing but we don't know what to do next.