OK I'm 15 and I just recently broke up with a kid that I was in love with... & I really didn't want to do it but I had to because he didn't treat me right so I was totally depressed after wards and couldn't get over him... well 1 of my friends had a friend that was single and wanted us to go on a blind date I really didn't want to but I did anyway well... when I met the kid I think it was love at first sight and we kissed the on the first date and he asked me out and I said yes witch I have never done I usually liked to get 2 know them... but I really really liked this kid so then about 2 days later we were at my friends house and me and my new boy were in the bedroom and he wanted to have sex I told him no cause it was too soon so then about 3 days after that he asked me again he told me how much he loved me and he had never felt this way about anyone else before and that he wanted me 2 lose my virginity to him so I could be really close to him so I had sex with him... about 2 days after that I told him that I wanted to take it slow and calm down a little bit because I wasn't over my ex all the way & we were just moving way to fast but I still loved him I just need some time... well he over reacted a freaked out on me and asked me why and he thought that we were going to have a long relationship I told him we were but I just needed my space for a while well he called me every minute of everyday for about 3 days and finally I said it was over cause I just couldn't handle him not giving me time... maybe I ovreacted by doing that but I really needed time... then he came 2 my house 1 night and I asked me for a second chance I told him yes... when we were back together we had sex every night even when I was too tired but if I told him no he would get mad andi would feel bad so I gave it up... then about 2 days after we got back together he broke up with me... I really don't know why he never told me but I really want him back in my life cause I really did love him & I still do but he told me we would get back together in about a month well I called him 1 day to talk and he told me he did want to talk to me any more cause he had his reasons but I really don't know what to do... I don't know what I did for him 2 break up with me... was it me was it him... idk help please

D last time I checked having sex at age 15 is illegal. Why do you want this guy because he does not seem very mature and able of maintaining a healthy relationship. You can't degrade yourself like that and let him do what he wants 2 do. Having sex underage never ends up well because you might have an unwanted pregnancy, STD's etc... Relationships don't revolve around sex, they revolve around love. Well dat's my philosophy or rather logical analysis.

Hunni listen to me. You're way better off without this guy.Thats probably not what you want to hear but it's the truth. And you know what they say... the truth hurts. I'm 16 so I'm near your age. This guy is using you for sex. And I know you love him but until he learns to respect you forget about him. Wait... how old is this guy? Older than 18? If so, I've been in that situation and its best if you leave before things get out of control. Believe me. Why don't you try finding a guy who is willing to do things that you want to do.

Hello.

Sending you a great big hug... Im not going to say how he used you because you already know that. Im not going to tell you that he is a jerk because you know that also. Im not even going to tell you that you can find much better then him because its not the right time for you to feel that right now but it will be soon.

What I am going to tell you is you did nothing wrong, You gave him 110% and he still can't see how special you are so its his loss not yours. I know in time he will see his mistake and by then you will have found your next Mr. Right and will already know that its better to take things slow and let things happen in their own time.

Good Luck
Dennis777

Well I Just Got Off A 2 Year Relationship With A Guy And Trust Me You Are Way Better Off... A Guy Who Pressured You Into Having Sex Is Not Woth Your Tears Or Your Time... You Will Find Love You Are Still Young Quit Stressing Over Something So Meaningless... Don't Fall In Love Just Enjoy Life Right Now While You Can:)