I've been going out with this lad for 2 years nearly and its been lots of ups and downs. When we 1st started he was really bothered I wasn't much because I was unsure of my feelings then we both was bothered and now I feel I am more bothered than what he is. Things don't feel the same as when we 1st got 2getha. He even says he admits he doesn't show he loves me anymore but he says he does love me. I miss the attention I used 2 get off him now he seems more bothered about his mates. I think we may spend 2 much time 2getha but I miss him sometimes I find it hard 2 enjoy myself because I'm thinking about him every so often. Its hard to spend time apart. I want 2 no how 2 take my mind of him and be how we were when we 1st got 2getha. Im not sure whether 2 break up and move on because I no I still feel for him but has what we had gone? Please give me some advice I'm really confused about it all.

You must balance a relationship with doing things you enjoy without him. Have a life of your own that makes you happy, as too much face time gets boring, and it is unhealthy to depend on another for your happiness.

You take your mind of him, by getting a life where your happy alone. Join the gym, spend time with friends, change your daily routines, try new things, classes, traveling anything. As tali said its unhealthy to depend on another for happiness. Your partner should be there to compliment your life and extend it not to make it!